I started a thread a couple of days ago and have really appreciated the support on there. Have been thinking lots today. Still feel very down but I have to think properly about this relationship.
My ex was very abusive, physically, mentally, sexually- he was controlling and horrible and I put up with his shit for many years. I then got pregnant and he beat me up when I was about 5 months gone. I left him.
About a month after my DD was born I met my current partner. He moved in with us a month ago.
He has been very moody for months, shouting at me and kind of belittling me. He went away for work and came back early but said he wouldn't come home because I would argue with him, but then came home anyway. We argued because he said I hadn't done anything in the house and was generally just moaning. Then I told him to leave me alone, he grabbed my arm and spun me around and shouted loudly in my face that I'm good for nothing then stormed out.
I don't know what I've done wrong and now I don't know what to do. He's being a prick but he does look after me and makes me feel safe but i hate when he shouts.
I've been very depressed for a while now and I don't feel I can think straight. I hate people shouting.