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Aibu to lock my husband out of the house?

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Rebecca2014 · 16/08/2014 09:57

I am fed up with his bullshit and lies.

In the last few months he has bothered to go out with me and our dd once, just once and I had the pleasure of paying for it out of my child tax credit money. He works constantly, he has one full time job and 2 part time jobs but still complains he is skint after paying all the bills. He is at work 6/7 days a week and doesn't come home on the weekends at all, he tells me sleeps in his car at night. When he is at home his in a bad mood and doesn't want to do anything.

He never helps with childcare, I have to always ask my family for help. He has 2 days a week off from his main job, on one of those days I wanted to get my hair done but he said no as his chosen to work on that day. I am fed up with having to keep depending on my poor family to babysit because my twat of a husband won't take a day off work.

He told me on Sunday he had to go to a meeting in the evening, okay I found that a bit strange but went along with it. I checked his email this morning as I have the password and he lied, it is a work party with dinner and drinks and he could bring his partner along. So he has lied to me again, god knows how many lies he has told me.

I am so angry and when he comes back home on Monday I want to lock him out of the house. I am afraid legally I don't have a leg to stand on due fact we rent and both our names are on the tenancy.

OP posts:
Bouttimeforwine · 18/08/2014 09:18

You will look back and realise it's for the best. Good luck with the practicalities and hope you are ok emotionally.

Softlysoftlycatchymonkey · 18/08/2014 11:51

How are you doing rebbeca ?

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