Just over 4 weeks ago DH told me he no longer wanted to be with me anymore. He just cares for me as a friend and nothing more. I was 17 weeks pregnant at the time. Although I know things haven't been great between us lately the break up still came as a shock. I suggested couples therapy but he won't do that he just wants to end things. He's had huge work commitments and we have a 2yo. I've had some health problems while pregnant so have been a little miserable lately. All these add to stress in a relationship but I didn't believe for a moment that we would break up. We are still living together and for a while he still slept in my bed but recently he has moved into the spare room as I don't seem to be dealing with it very well. I've had this feeling that there is more to this than he's letting on so I've been snooping. I'm not proud of that at all but I thought there was someone else and I couldn't let it go. Very recently I found a message to his friend talking about how much he is seeing another woman and running out of excuses to tell me to stay away and hotels are getting expensive. I moved a bit too quickly and told him what I found. He's pretty angry at me as I've taking his privacy away. He wasn't ready to tell anyone about this so I've taken that away from him to WTF!! He's now telling me that this only happened after he broke up with me and he does sound believable but I'm in total shock that he's moved on so quickly and I hate the idea of him sleeping with another woman.
Although he's told me he doesn't want to be with me this still fells very very wrong. There is nothing I can do about it even if he is telling the truth or not. At the end of the day he doesn't love me and I can't make him. I guess what I'm asking is how do I move on? How do I forgive and forget? I was so excited about having a baby but now I'm so scared of being on my own and worried how I will cope with two young children while he is off starting a new relationship. Any advice will be very much appreciated, thank you x