Namecalling in bed - new BF

[mrsefron]

I have been out of the dating game a while now but have recently started a new relationship with a seemingly nice man. We have slept together a few times and the sex is very passionate and hot but the last couple of times he's called me a few names in the throes (like slut, bitch etc.) Is this normal and am I being a prude or red flag? Everything else going good.

" It is absolutely possible to love, admire, and respect someone and put them up on a pedestal, then drag them off the pedestal and fuck the shit out of them, then as soon as the sex is over put them right back up on that pedestal and love, admire, and respect them just as much if not more than you did before."

Absolutely agree with GrumpyOldNag. I like blokes who are up for real filthy talk, but I only like it if I've told them to do it first, and using terms that I'm happy with.

If a guy started doing it freestyle I wouldn't be impressed.