Help - husband

[sykes]

Redundancy is rather failing into insignificance -update on that later if anyone is interested. But my h has just sent me an e-mail asking if I want him to come back. HELP, HELP, HELP.

do you?

Are you OK? That must have been a bit of a shock!

Well?

funny doing it via e-mail.

F*ck

how did he word it?

So do you?

Is this something that has been coming for a while or is completely out of the blue?

do you know why? was it a nice message? how confusing

My heart is going, you knew something was going to happen this week

SYKES??? You haven't keeled over in shock have you?

Hardly a begging letter. It said: Do you want me to come back? I'm serious.
I have to leave work in 15 minutes - how should I reply? Don't know what to do. I feel sick.

I'm in shock, no doubt you are

Sorry, on the phone to a friend simultaneously. HELP.

gosh. why do men do things like this?? grrrr

Ignore it, if you want him back he'll have to work harder than that. Let him try again face to face and show you he's willing to make an effort and he means it. Don't jump straight threw his hoop.
Or do what the hell you want

have called beety

shes on the case!

What a Head F**Ck, what a silly silly man, he hasn't actually had a clue why his done all this has he.

Wow !
Suggest you send something back like "If you're serious, I suggest we get together to discuss"

Non-commital, but then find out what's going on (has his GF ditched him??) and also gives you time to work out your feelings about all this.

Poor you...

bt says give him a hard time

she is in waitrose

How about "not tonight I've got a date"...

I do not know why he left originally sykes. But you should talk to him in person OR if that feels like not a good idea... you would not trust yourself or such like... perhaps you should email him asking why the change of heart and that you need more of an explanation please!

Feel it's rather his crap take on responsibility - as if I have to make the decision?? Should I reply at all - off to watch dd1 at ballet in ten minutes. Can't face him tonight.

I agree forestfly

I wouldn't reply, give yourself some time to think, anything you say now will be spur of the moment. Have a go tonight

CD - LOVE IT. Thanks to all. Or how about yes for this evening and need a babysitter.