I would love some advice. I have been having an affair for 16 months and I just can't stand the hurt anymore. I am married and I love my husband but I also love the man I'm having the affair with. We have become really close and tell each other everything...but deep down I know it could never work. We are killing each other.. he needs to move on and find someone to start a life with, but can't while we are seeing each other. We try and stop but keep starting up again but it really does have to end as I am in such a state. I just miss him so much and don't know what to do. I know it's wrong but I just need some advice. Thank you