Ok I meet an attractive guy at work I'm encouraging about training and promotion he mentions that he's single et I think ooooo
Te next day he turns up at my lunch period to 'chat' but I'm with a friend for a meeting about a project we are doing together he says he'll come back
Turns up next day and he says he's doing a photography course and wants to use me as a model I say yes facepalm but he starts using words I reckon are a bit odd like seductive and tempting esp as I have a student working with me in the room but then
I get a text saying he is thinking risqué photos and hopes I'm ok with that - I say er no I'm not as it's inappropriate to do with work - he asks me out for a drink I say yes.... Then omfg I'm bombarded with texts - can I FaceTime him can I install whatsapp he must chat to me asap etc when can we meet up I back off and ignore him but then
I think he is attractive looking and this could just be keen I might be missing out...... So yesterday I text an apology but then
Back to being bombarded with texts I arrange a drink on Saturday but say I need to be up early so will be early night - I suggest somewhere near him and as I go to bed see he's suggested somewhere near me - I leave it as if he sees I've read his text he texts again asking what I think but then
I find he's asked himself over to sleep on my sofa.... seriously I've talked to this guy for ten minutes and he's already asked to use me as a glamour model n to kip over
I can't figure out if he is a wonderful free spirit with no boundary issues or need of personal space who it would be worth pursuing a friendship with or a total nut job doing the dance of the seven red flags
Please MN experts help me!