Dodgy text msg from DH....not meant for me

[fedupandexhausted]

My husband is away this weekend on a works conference.... The whole company is there.

I've woken up to a text saying 'lol...have had to come up. It's 321'.

I feel a bit sick but am I reading too much into this?

Who says 3:21am surely you'd just say 3:20am.

Id say defiantly his room number. But who the text was to is anyone's guess.

Id have text back straight away to be honest but that's me, i couldn't drive myself crazy all night

Actually I think the text was probably meant for Op. If he was replying to someone how did he manage to send it to the wrong place?

my reaction is its innocent.

That's lovely of you all but are you joking?! Who writes a time as specifically as 21 minutes past 3 ?! With no colon? Plus the OP clearly k nows what time it was sent, it'll be on the message.
It's clearly his room number. He's obviously replying to something hence the 'lol'' and 'have had to come up' implies he needed to go up from the party or events to his room, either to preserve some sort of appearance or just because he's tired. the question is who it was intended for. It could very easily be a male friend who wanted to borrow a razor or something.

Is there any other evidence or reason to be suspicious, OP? Bear in mind if there is anything dodgy he will have had plenty of time to concoct an explanation.

perhaps it is 321 as in 54321?

I work away fairly often and that seems typical of the messages we send each other. We might mention in passing that we'll have breakfast together or something and would usually give each others room a ring or give each other a knock in the morning etc.

I've also been on the receiving end of messages inviting me back to someone's room and the intent has been very clear in those.

I'd say you have nothing to worry about

or does it mean three minutes to one?

I'd say 321 in a jokey way if I was trying to emphasise quite hoe late it was. I still think it's a room no tho and without any additional info I'd assume innocent

Also my phone has an annoying quirk whereby I can read a message on my lockscreen but if I open my messages it defaults to the last message I actually opened, so unless I reply straight away it's quite easy to send to the wrong person, as I've found out a few lots of times

But at three minutes to one I would just say 'it's one'. Don't think many people would feel the need to give the time so precisely. It's a hotel room or some joke between workmates.

But it was sent at two o'clock.

I'm sticking with the it's room number but innocent theory

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It could be totally innocent , however, I don't believe it is and I'm not the suspicious type !

I can't imagine her dhs' work colleagues questioning where he was at 2 in the morning , surely they'd have realized he'd called it a night , and as someone suggested that he might have been texted to say that he'd left his jacket downstairs, or whatever, then I'd imagine if that were the case someone wouldve took care of his jacket and given it back to him the next morning.

I'd say that he replied to a text from a female colleague asking where he'd got to and he gave her his room number.

I really think that if he were trying to persuade a woman up to his room he would at least have put a kiss at the end or something persuasive. This is obviously an innocent text. He probably asked someone to drop something to his room in the morning or has arranged an early morning meeting.

'lol...have had to come up. It's 321'

Where are the XXXXXX?

Nothing to worry about.

IAFST

Jemma what about the
Well knock on your door for breakfast
Explanation?

If I got that text from my DH, I'd have replied 'What the hell are you on about?'

How about actually asking him that as a first step before deconstructing it seventy six billion ways?

Agree bear . Op not been back for while hopefully that's what's happening

Stealth

I really can't see why anyone would knock on his door to go to breakfast , he's a grown man so I'm sure he's capable of meeting others in the breakfast area in the morning .

However, like I said , it could all be totally innocent .

It's best for the OP to check her dhs phone for other messages when he gets home.

If I got that I'd assume a text saying where are you etc, and what room do we charge drinks to? Especially if he is a manager.

I've got deja vu.
Wasn't there a thread identical to thisa couple of months back?
He came home and there wasa plausible explanation for it if I recall.

Stupid space bar!

I would imagine the preceding text read something like this.....

"where did you go? It's been bugging me all night since you mentioned it - what was the show Dusty Bin was on?"

Thats the sort of thing my dp would text me as he is a bit of a lightweight at parties and often has to bow out!

I can't believe more than one person saying it's innocent because it has no kisses. Fucksake! Not everyone does the cutesy kiss thing you know! Hon.