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Internet dating stories ?

72 replies

MummyAbroad · 18/01/2014 02:30

I'm giving it a whirl, I have signed up and put myself out there. Feels really scary and so far is bringing disappointing results. Anyone had any really positive experiences internet dating? Equally if you have had bad ones, post it too so I can see how it really is....oooh no on second thoughts, post all the funny stories to cheer me up... go on... there must be some good'uns between you all. :-)

(Apologies if I am not back for a while, I'm not in the same time zone as the UK)

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ThistletoeAndWine · 18/01/2014 02:42

I married my hubby 6 years ago, we been together for 12 years after meeting on internet :-)

MrsBarlow · 18/01/2014 08:02

DH and I married three years ago after meeting online - expecting our second baby now :)

Froblawd · 18/01/2014 08:05

Another success story here. Met online 14 years ago, married for 6 with a 2 y/o DS.

JonSnowKnowsNothing · 18/01/2014 08:06

I met someone who seemed so nice online, then in the pub KEPT doing bloody Yoda impressions - it was terrible.

Which one have you joined, mummy?

mummyzoe2012 · 18/01/2014 08:10

I met dh online. Been together 8 years this june married for 2 and have a two year old princess.

MyLeftElbow · 18/01/2014 08:10

JonSnow... Don't you mean "terrible, it was"? Wink

I'm still with my internet chap, 4 years and one DD down the line Smile

MirandaWest · 18/01/2014 08:11

I met my boyfriend online - we've been together nearly 2 years :)

OhBabyLilyMunster · 18/01/2014 08:12

Together eight years this year, two sons and a wedding later, its all still brilliant

SoManyIllustrations · 18/01/2014 08:13

2 years, a bump and a ring later....

fempsych · 18/01/2014 08:13

Married - one baby. Met online :-)

JonSnowKnowsNothing · 18/01/2014 08:13

Not funny, Elbow!! Grin

londonchick · 18/01/2014 09:15

We're married too with a baby on the way. I did meet a few bores along the way though!!

HairyGrotter · 18/01/2014 09:43

I had to kiss a fair few frogs (I didn't kiss all of them) but met DP online, getting married in September!

Good luck

brokenhearted55a · 18/01/2014 09:44

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LastingLight · 18/01/2014 10:53

Had lovely email correspondence with two guys I never met. Met a couple, maybe 4 or 5. One guy became a good friend but it never went further. Then I met (now) DH, emailed for two months then met f2f... now been happily married for 8 years.

superram · 18/01/2014 11:14

Me and two best friends all married with children.

I had 5 dates beforehand, all ok.

Don't put too pressure on yourself or them-don't husband hunt. Look to have fun and if it goes somewhere then it's a bonus.

KouignAmann · 18/01/2014 11:15

Met a trained killer who was gorgeous and made me laugh but deranged!
Then met DP who faffed about for 2 months until we eventually met for a drink. 2.5 years on we are solid. Nicest man I ever met!

Give it a go, but read the Red Flags thread and bin any who don't live up to expectations.

nessus · 18/01/2014 11:18

Another success story. Give it a try OP. It is a great way if sifting the wheat from the chaff.

Cezzieb · 18/01/2014 11:18

Met my hubby online, together 5 years, married one year expecting first in a few days!!!

YuffietheNinja · 18/01/2014 12:30

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mrscoleridge · 18/01/2014 12:55

Another success story here.
Met current boyfriend online. Was supposed to be a casual thing but am totally in love and he's the nicest man I have ever met.
Also met some fabulous shags previous to him!
It's only as risky as meeting someone in a bar so preserve he will be out there

60sname · 18/01/2014 13:40

Getting married this year. Met a few guys before him who didn't light my fire but no-one dreadful

mcmoonfucker · 18/01/2014 13:56

If you know your red flags it's as good a place as anywhere to meet someone.
I've dated with 'RL' people and online people....as much of a chance of meeting a loser in both situations IMO. In fact, I'd go as far to say that you may be less on guard in RL if you are introduced to someone.
Currently with an 'onliner'...he's lovely.

teaandthorazine · 18/01/2014 14:31

Met my dp online after a few years of on-and-off internet dating. Met plenty of nice people, just no long-term prospects. A couple of them I'm even still in touch with as mates.

Dp and I have been together for three years, very happy. I see it as no different from meeting any other way. There are muppets everywhere, not just online, but there are plenty of good men too. Give it a go!

HeyMicky · 18/01/2014 14:39

Met my DH online too, 5 years ago. DD is now 16 months.

He was the first (but not the only) date I went on from My Single Friend. Two other friends subsequently joined, both are married, and one is expecting DC1 in April