Oh, Dont, not surprised you're drained - all of that sounds very full-on! However, most of the tension was probably inflated/blown out of proportion (correct me if I'm wrong) if you were both really drunk (I presume you were quite hammered if you were having the drunken 'let's have a baby together' talk so soon?). Presuming also that your ex was drunk, and it sounds like a recipe for disaster all round.
Why is Geeky so bothered by what your ex thinks/does? What exactly was brought up in the argument?
Hopefully things will blow over - it sounds like it has done already, if you're seeing each other again on Tuesday.
Oneday, Softkitty< Flora and Master - I did get a response to my text, at about 1.30am, along the lines of "Have had a good evening but still feeling a bit spaced out, as you can see from my text. I felt like we were together "last night", you left me with such a strong feeling about you"
Back story: he is freelance and had a massive project to finish after leaving mine on Thursday which had to be finished by yesterday morning, hence he was working through the night Thurs & Fri, so he is probably a bit spaced out/all over the place, time wise.
I didn't reply as was half asleep, then I got another text from him this morning at about 11am to say "How are you today? I'm still in bed and thinking of you. Shame we can't be together again until Wednesday, can't wait to see you again"
I replied to ask what he wanted to do on Wed, and literally 2 minutes later I received EXACTLY the same text as he sent at 11am, word for word, like it had been copied and pasted. Nothing since then. Hmm, so now don't know what to think. If he's sending generic texts to someone other than me, then he's getting it wrong with her too, as Wed is def the day we are meeting again.
Oneday - regarding the text last night, it was very specific in the first part of referencing exact things I'd mentioned in my earlier messages to him. No, we haven't discussed being exclusive, but then again, Wed was only the second time I'd met him and I didn't want to come across as too full on (even though we DTD) if you see what I mean.
Master EXACTLY!! When did dating become so complicated???
I didn't even really think to ask re 'being exclusive' anyway as I too think that you meet someone, you like them, you DTD - surely there should be some sort of unspoken agreement then that you are each putting time, emotion and physical closeness into being with that person, so why the need to multiple date and shag around?? I haven't got the energy or time to multiple date, and find the idea of someone I've slept with and plan to see again pretty sad if they are multiple dating...