Hi all,
Ive posted before about my relationship under the name s0fedup. Not sure how to namechane when doing a thread...
Anyway, I dont want to drip feed but tjis time last year I was newly pregnant (unplanned) dh didnt want baby, wanted to leave...
fast forward to baby being 5 weeks old. All ok I tjought, then we had a huge row when he pushed me whilst i was holding the baby.
He has form for making huge swweping statements where he says he doesnt love me blah blah blah
Anyway, baby got the D&V bug on friday night. Dc2 got it yesterday, i got it last night.
I was a wreck and he just got so wound up with the baby not settling. Its because he has never put the baby to bed or done any actual childcare. I have done every night since they were born (6months ago) in fact me and bubs sleep in the nursery together...
Anyway, I ended up settling baby after vomiting but she would only sleep on me. Not a kind work from DH.
Other dc stayed downstairs with dh until je came to bed.
I had to look after baby all night even though I was ill, a d even went into dc when he was sick at 4.
By 7am I had all 3 in thr nursery, i had to go into him at 7:45 to ask him to take 2 of them so me and poorly dc could rest.
He then and hour later cant settle baby, comes up gives her to me and says he needs a shower and is going out.
All grumpy, I ask whats wrong and he anmounces in a pained voice how bored and lonely he is!
Have i not noticed?? errr no,
Bit dramatic sighs, he leaves
WTAF???
He has done this so many times i am really angry, we have family coming today then my Dm for xmas!!!!!
Sorry for marathon rant, not sure how to feel?...