Broken sounds like a good date - what about the guy? Do you like him?
Putitonthelist I would be wary of mentions of exes at all on first dates, tbh. If I was telling a story when the ex had been there, I would just vaguely say ''we'' and not specify and not expect the other person to ask. I would avoid stories where my XP was the focus. Hmm even on a second date recently I found myself going down a route that led me to talking about my XP and I stopped myself and openly said, oops, I'm not going to do that, and changed the subject. It's like one of the unwritten rules of dating etiquette. ESPECIALLY don't bitch about exes in a disparaging way. If I ever hear a guy refer to any ex as ''psycho'' (or similar) then my twat radar would be screeching off the charts. But it sounds like you had a good time. Did he seem interested in finding out about you too, or just telling you about himself?