Don't know why I'm posting really, it's all done and dusted now. I was out with a friend Saturday night, we had a lot to drink and I met someone. He was very good looking and charming, and I was in a seize-the-day kind of mood, so I brought him home with me. I was under no illusions that he would be anything other than a ONS, but thought fuck it, I haven't had sex in bloody ages, I'm going to enjoy myself. And I did enjoy it, we both did. He left soon after and I thought that was it, gave him my number but didn't expect to ever see or hear from him again.
On Monday morning he phoned me just as I was getting ready for work. He said he thought he had left a card he needed from work at my house and asked me to look for it. I looked everywhere, whilst still on the phone, pulled furniture out etc, but it wasn't there. We had a brief chat then said goodbye.
A few hours later, while I was at work, I had a call from my friend who is currently staying with me; the same friend I was with when I met him. She said he had come to my house to look for the card himself! Friend assumed I had agreed for him to come over - I most definitely hadn't. After looking for it and realising it wasn't here, this man sat next to my friend ('uncomfortably close' was how she described it) and proceeded to chat her up - he asked for her number/e-mail (she said no) and asked her not to tell me. Friend was a bit scared and freaked out by this point and asked him to leave, which he did.
I am so utterly annoyed with myself for being so stupid and allowing this creep into my house. I want to phone him and tell him what a complete sleazy cunt he is, but I daren't, seeing as he knows where I live. I know there's nothing I can do about it now, I am just so bloody angry and embarrassed .
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I slept with an absolute arsehole this weekend - feel like shit now
muminthecity · 16/10/2013 22:17
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