"20 minutes later received a text saying he felt no spark"
Aww, that's a shame, Hormonal. But at least he told you quickly so you weren't left guessing for days I suppose. Every cloud has a silver lining as they say.
Poffed I didn't realise it had been so long with you man. No wonder you were upset. Glad you seen more settled with it all now
"Gap yah brought me a bouquet. Not service station flowers I stress, but no physical contact not even on departure. What????"
Huh!? That's just not normal in my experience and would really do my head in. I wonder if he has major sexual hangups 
If it were me I'd just be up front and say "you can kiss me if you like" and see what he does.
"He's just left! Was fun"
Sounds good Dontcallmehon 
My 1st date with "R" (man 4) on Friday afternoon went pretty well but I'm not sure about him. We have a strikingly similar outlook to life (we both tend to think outside the box and question convention...we've had some great convos!), but I found him too full on really. He wouldn't stop leaning over the table (in a rather quiet pub) to try and full on snog me. I'm affectionate but I'm really not into tongue action in public like that (which I told him) so I was getting a little peed off at times. I also explained how I prefer kissing mainly with lips (so many more lovely nerve endings in my lips than in my tongue) but he still kept overusing his tongue 
We also discussed levels of email and phone contact and agreed that we like our space and not keen on daily contact, yet he texts me daily and when we chat on the phone he ends it with "I'll call you tomorrow" 
Oh, and he's already given me a nickname. I can't see this going anywhere which is a shame because I really do like part of him; he's needs to rein it right in if he has any chance with me.