Dating Thread 63- disappearers, wedding bells and dodgy eye candy, all are welcome

[hostesswithleastest]

Oops that title may have put off newcomers :D

Anyway.... the old thread is dead long live the new!

[kittykat10]

Just feeling lonely tonight , saw my ex and his child with the gf earlier that not helped plus not spoke to another human all day.
And missed seeing Mr car this weekend last few weekends been fun , we have texted today but all of a sudden I feel real low .

[KinNora]

I'm sorry Kitty, I think that can be Saturday night/weekend feeling when you feel like everyone else is having a better time than you, can you phone someone in RL or watch something entertaining on the telly ? I know how crappy it is to feel like that.

[kittykat10]

I don't have any one to call.

To be honest I have no friends no real world ones.

Sorry

[Snapespeare]

come on 49!

[KinNora]

Kitty, what are you apologising for ? Life is very hard sometimes, almost impossible to endure but it will get better.

[Kirstywirsty]

Hey kitty hope you are feeling a bit better this morning .. I often think a Saturday feels as though everyone else is out partying and I'm the only one not!

Do you have DCs? Organising play dates is a good way to make friends with other mums .. And a lot of people on here swear by meet up as a good way to make new friends

Morning everyone :)

49 well......??????

[kittykat10]

Hi Kristy.

No I don't have any kids , people I used to be friends with at work I get the odd text but it me who sends the first one.
Sad to say but no one , I spend every day in my room , I have a dog but she hopeless with other dogs so I walk her alone.
Not worked since November so every day same.

[KinNora]

Kitty - you said that you used to work in healthcare (I don't know which field) have you looked at volunteering, either in your own area of experience or something completely different ? That way you'd get out of the house, meet other people and in addition to helping others, lift your own mood.

[kittykat10]

Kin

I was a nurse. Tried to join an agency but my registration run out and need a crb check but I can't afford it .
I can't take the risk th a t I pay it and then not get work.
I live fairly rural area so hospitals fair distance , I get 70 a week that has to cover bills housing ext.

I'll be ok just Fed up

[KinNora]

Ok then what about finding an organisation to volunteer for ? I think that if you are a naturally empathetic person then it makes life very difficult if you can't express that part of your personality and, speaking for myself, I'm much happier when I've not got too much time to dwell on my various problems.

[KinNora]

Wine - look at us two being all professional and mature and shit - arf

[kittykat10]

I'm in Midlands .
I have two possible interviews if I can pass the maths exam.
My job center is 10 miles away so cost me about 4 pound to go , I've emailed to see if I can get travel funding for interviews but not hopeful.

I don't want to go back to where I worked as I was bullied.
I did get a job I n Jan but it was withdrawn to previous boss reference.

I did nothing wrong but wasn't supported well in role.

[kittykat10]

She can appear aggressive but I think she picks up on my anxiety issues in the home she lovely well behaved brilliant with t he other dogs we have.
I've muzzled her now for her own protection but due the breed ppl avoid I d US .

[OhWesternWind]

Wrote a great long post and just lost it. Gist was:-

49 all agog and vicariously excited here

Broken if you're not on top form, OD can be difficult. I've always used Match and PoF in combination, kept me well supplied with dates, many of them engineers (which is not necessarily a bad thing)

Snape shipping out to N's sounds like a cracking plan. Salmon my arse.

Kitty weekends and holidays can be really hard. Sorry you're feeling a bit down.

Nora purleeeese rename this poor bloke! He's going to be the love of your life maybe and all we'll be able to think about is suppurating sores.

Hello Rose lovely!

Bant as my grandma used to say, there's none so blind as those who will not see.

Hello everyone else!

Wonderful afternoon/evening out with Alpha and dc yesterday. He's great with them, they really like him. All is lovely beyond belief. He's coming over this afternoon too . I feel so very, very lucky to have met him.

[kittykat10]

West Midlands,
I can't relocate my dad is elderly so I need to be close by.
She is a staff as well , she scared of all sorts.

Sorry to hi Jack post !

[Bant]

Sorry you're feeling down Kitty - I think others are giving better advice than I can though.
Nora - I agree with OWW
OWW - I'm chuffed for you - glad he gets on with the DC

I went out last night to meet some friends at a beer festival, and ran into MedStudent, who I dated twice back in March (I think). Several of us moved on to another place and as the evening went on, everyone paired off with each other, apart from me and the MedStudent. She got drunker and drunker, louder and louder (she's American, which meant she was pretty damn loud to begin with) and started telling the others how much she liked me, could one of them give her my phone number, then she came over and grabbed me and tried to stick her tongue down my throat, and it was horribly unpleasant and awkward.

At one point I was chatting to a cute German girl and MedStudent decided to put herself between the two of us and try and warn the other girl off with eye contact. So that didn't go too well

I didn't find her particularly attractive anyway and she was irritating everyone the whole time -stealing drinks from other groups of people etc, and then she told me she couldn't stop thinking about me and she'd never met anyone she liked as much as me, never felt that connection with anyone else. And it was just yeuch.

Everyone else left, so I said I'd walk her home and she slurred 'really? I thought you didn't want to have sex with me?' - so I had to explain that 'walking her home' meant just that, as she was drunk enough to be falling off the pavement in front of cars. And so I put her in a taxi instead.

Started out a nice evening then I just felt pissed off and vaguely unjustifiably guilty at the end of it.