This is a genuine first post. I have only just joined as I go on other forums, but if I asked in any of those I would be outed straight away and wouldnt get a sensible answer.
I moved up to my town a couple of years ago with my DH and two sons. I made a few really close friends through my sons school and we now have a group of about 6 of us who are all really good friends.
Before meeting my DH I had a short fling with another woman. I wont call it a relationship because it wasnt. It was the two of us getting what we wanted without any strings. Its always been a bit of a fantasy. Nobody, not even my close friends knew.
After a slightly drunk chat with one of the mums in our 'group' she revealed she has the same feelings and has basically tried to initiate an affair. I am hugely flattered, and mostly tempted, but I do genuinely love my DH. I am going crazy. I see her every day. She is one of my closest friends. I am a bit annoyed that our friendship has been put on the line, but I am so tempted to give in.
