Would you be comfortable in the knowledge that your date had slept with hundreds of women?

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Or would that fact be off putting?

Just asking for a friend.

Yes, she believes him. No, it's not me.

bigstrong that was me. I have made my all partners I slept with have STI tests before getting intimate. But we went together, had them done together. You could get results via letter or call. But DF and I have been together a long time so not sure what the process would be now.

Thanks littlepea not sure he'd be up for a joint visit! Might suggest it though and see what he thinks...

Mama you wouldn't get results straight away so I'm not sure a joint visit proves much. Clinics may vary but the last one I came into contact with had an automated number for people to ring, so I suppose you could ask to listen to that.

But if you honestly think he would lie about either going or the results then you have bigger things to think about.

big your fella "doesn't like condoms" and "wouldn't like an STI clinic visit" ?

should you really be sleeping with this bloke ?

or even giving him headspace ?

900? My arse!
Either way, I wouldn't touch him with a bargepole, sorry.

Ick, no.

Surely a normal person who had shagged 900 odd people would only be able to give an approximation like "loads. Seriously, LOADS."?

I find it hard to imagine being attracted to someone who was that much of a ladies' man to have shagged around a K of women.

But if I did, anything approximating an actual number would make me think he was a weirdo.

I dont think I'd like that at all, partly because I'd feel I'd be just another number on his list, but also the idea of telling anyone what your 'number' is just seems odd, I've never asked a partner how many previous partners they've had and no one has ever asked me.
it just seems juvenile...like something you might do when you're 16