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Just caught on the couch

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Tilpil · 14/07/2013 05:10

My fiancée and best friend gutted doesn't even come close and now he's a potential suicide risk because he's been caught head has gone so alone

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Tilpil · 14/07/2013 15:20

CCTV is because I work from home and need to be able to show who has been on premises certain days if needs be not that I ever get asked but when she said about him going at midnight and coming ack at 1:30 I thought we'll I can prove this easily he would be on camera but nope no recording. Oh no me and her partner already know seeing as by 8am this morning she had told all of her partners clients what she had done and text my family fed up and sick of crying

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Xales · 14/07/2013 15:27

Too much drama why the hell is she calling her partners clients?

Get him out your house, back off and leave them to sort this mess out.

You don't have to get involved.

Trazzletoes · 14/07/2013 15:47

So she is calling round everyone to let them know?! Dear me, you do NOT need that drama in your life anymore!

This is SO not your fault. It says nothing about you and everything about them. Your ex-friend sounds like she was jealous of your relationship. I wouldn't worry about her being pregnant - maybe she is, maybe she isn't, but at least you aren't tied to this man forever.

You sound amazingly strong for someone who has just had this bombshell.

Lweji · 14/07/2013 15:50

What an awful woman.

Poor children. Particularly his DD. :(

Vivacia · 14/07/2013 18:08

Exactly what is she telling people? I can't think how she can paint herself in a good light. Has he gone now?

I agree with Trazzle, you're doing great. Stay strong.

Sallyingforth · 14/07/2013 18:32

I really feel for you OP. The only good news is that they did this to you before the wedding and not after. You are innocent and should not blame yourself in any way.

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Tilpil · 14/07/2013 18:59

She's saying they were both unhappy and it just happened hmm nope. I think the anger is what is holding me up at the moment then hot bath and bed I think try and sort my head out a little bit and be thankful I do have a friend I can count on who didn't leave my side all day

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IAmNotAMindReader · 14/07/2013 19:07

Cut the drama llamas loose.

They want to set the stage to play victim and its not going to happen. Refuse to engage with either of them.

Locketjuice · 18/07/2013 14:45

How are you OP x

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