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Oh crap, do I tell him? WWYD?

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Jaquen24 · 04/07/2013 16:12

DP was late over last night...forgot to tell me he had football. No big issue. We sorted it.

But as I was worried about him (recent bereavement) I made the faux pas of checking his FB. I never have before, though I've known his password for ages.

Long story short, we're very happy generally. He talks of marriage (been together a year-ish) and he treats me well etc.

Anyway, I checked his activity log as I got curious whilst I was on there and turns out he's been checking 2 of his exes' FB pages sporadically since we got together.

What would you make of this? Would you tell him you knew? I feel quite hurt tbh. I don't seek out my exes...

When we first got together he'd just had a bad break up with the first and looked her up a lot according to FB but not as much recently...just once or twice a month.

He seemed over it months back so I don't really know what to make of it?

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Jengnr · 05/07/2013 18:12

Nowt to be concerned about. It's the same curiosity that led you to look at his FB :)

Chalk it up as a draw, don't do it again and FFS don't tell him. :)

plantsitter · 05/07/2013 18:17

Isn't Facebook FOR stalking looking up old exes? I personally was rather pleased to see that the guy I lost my virginity to and who then immediately dumped me now looks like Uncle Fester. Lucky escape.

I wouldn't tell him and I would try not to see it as very significant either. People are nosey.

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