Ha Wine what a start to your course! Do you think you want a repeat, or best to leave it? Could be a bit difficult for him with student:teacher relationship, am quite surprised at him doing this, irresistable as you are, as surely it's against his code of conduct.
Moan agree with Lorna here totally. If you both feel right about it, then it's right. How can there be a one size fits all rule for how long it takes to recover from the end of a relationship and be ready for a new one? Some people will be ready immediately, some even two years would be too short. Hope the dinner goes well.
Kirsty I'd go, I think, but maybe stay off the sites to avoid temptation. I can imagine exactly how this came about!
Scrazy who's booty calling you then? Hope you're feeling a bit less burned and having a good day. It does leave a big gap in your life and the trick is distraction, displacement and changing routine. It's hard, but time and a new man is the only cure.
Lorna what was said at the end of the date about a repeat performance? I am a newly converted fan of taking things slowly, and maybe he is being respectful of you and wants to get to know you before taking things further. If you think there was a mutual attraction, that sounds good, worth another date I think.
Having said that about taking things slowly, am getting very frustrated about Alpha being away until the middle of the week, then me being busy for a few nights when he comes back. So it's looking like it will be next weekend before we can meet up, although we are hoping to be able to find an hour or so earlier in the week. Difficult with travel, work, babysitters aaargh. He is keeping in good contact though so could be a lot worse. It's just really frustrating!