Who's going to start dating thread No57?

[akaWisey]

Or am I going to be 'one'

Lorna I'm with you and was saying as much the other day - but I think we're in the minority. I don't Google, I prefer to let people reveal who they are. There are other ways to screen out the arsehats than Google.

Nice but filthy is my aim too Wine, dirty but clean - there must be someone out there like that. Mustn't there?

Nora you caaaah I'm going to wake up at 3am singing that crap now

Was it butterscotch?

Oh there is OWW

Someone that doesn't belong to 48 I should have said

Do you know, I think it was butterscotch ( my autocorrect wanted that to be 'butts itch' - how very apt ) .

OWW 'only you can set me free, I stand acuuu-u-usssed of love in the first degree' -you're welcome

There is more than one. Tricky bit is finding em!

Can I just ask, what would you consider 'filthy'? Just wondering if I'm missing out here as I consider myself fairly kink free but have never really been surprised by anyone doing anything. Nor have I ever thought 'Yippee, you want me to handcuff and beat you with a spatula in the garden shed, let's go' Just couldn't be arsed. I would be worried about a spade though.

Oh please please please. I thought the Angel Delight convo was a blip..

Without involving Angel Delight as much for my sake as well as Bants

Morning.

My Rhino hide has been packed carefully away. (Until next time)

WarmFuzzy is back Roar

Filthy's all relative, isn't it ? For me, I'd use it to refer to a man who's got a certain innate sensuality to him, the antithesis of a missionary position only, once in a blue moon, no I'm not doing it on the balcony even though no one can see us type man .

According to Kin's definition, Mr Lovely is pretty filthy

no I'm not doing it on the balcony even though no one can see us type

I suspect we've all had one of those. Or not.

Mine refused to even join me naked on a very private balcony in the rain. It was in Sorrento, on a warm night and overlooking the bay. I wasn't even thinking sex as he used to get the vapours anytime he went outside Essex

Have made up for it since.

I'm pretty filthy. Very actually. Quite Kinky. Ha Haha.

Ok so I've just caught up. Facebook stalling is normal to me but I've never thought I'd googling. Gonna do that now for a guy that's asked me out.

Ok Wise daters. I have been asked out by the guys

Guy 1 I was seeing for a couple of months at the start of the year.it Was fun but i couldn't see him as the relationship type so ended it. Now he wants a shot to show 'its more than just sex'

Guy 2 is lovely. Very Very sweet. Would Make a great boyfriend. He's A Christian though and though I used to be I am no longer.

Guy 3 is a player but could be good for done fun.

Then there is Mr Distant who is meant to be thinking what he wants. Who of course I am still hung up on.

What do you think?

And in answer to what do you consider filthy... well for me it's about trying everything at least once. Everything and anything.

Guy1 had his chance, blew it.
Guy 2 only an issue if his and your beliefs would cause difficulties.
Guy 3 fun? you can have fun with Guy 2
Mr Distant, meh

You don't have to choose though, you can date more than one as long as you are up front. Just consider whether any of the others are worth it.

You can tell I'm meant to be cleaning. Or in Tesco.

Guy 2 believes in no sex before marriage. Funnily though I don't mind that do much...

I didn't give guy 1 a chance for anything tbh. Just had fun, made assumptions and ended it

Just got a job finally after 4 years! Can't wait! :o

Juliette let's not talk about what we SHOULD be doing while we MN... there would be many guilty posters around. Haha.

Haha WF. I was brought up in a very Christian home so this isn't odd to me.

Juliette my 'no balcony man' was my exh, it was warm, it was night, it was Menorca and no-one could see a bloody thing, however he claimed a bloke looking out of his window on the other side of the pool could 'tell' that was what we were going to get up to. FFS.

Any man who isn't moved to sensuality by Sorrento must be an idiot (see also exh, again, funnily enough ) - that part of Italy is just breathtaking.

SaR I agree with Juliette's assessment, no. 2 as long as there are no clashes.

Kin I sympathise. Mine was also a ltr and yes he was an idiot. This was Mr not-laid-back-but-just-not-interested in anything. Knobber. I took him to a park after work one summers day with a beautiful lake. There were loved up couples and families everywhere. We had to go home because there were 'flies'. NYE in Paris in a we had to go home at 11.40 pm because he was 'tired' . This man was 15yr younger than me ffs. I saw a picture of him recently in the local paper, still boring but now looks like his Dad.