Who's going to start dating thread No57?

[akaWisey]

Or am I going to be 'one'

ha ha Moanranger actually i spotted someone i dated a few years ago in one of the meetup groups.... fortunately not one i'm interested in!

Asking for sex right out does work. I've been asked a few times and that fact that I considered it rather than an outright no means that was more likely to succeed with me than some random drunk man trying to snog me in a bar at the end of the night.

I also know men it has worked for.

surely good sex with one lover is better than a series of ONS's
I agree, that's the point I was making to him last night. And he sees it too. To be honest he seems like the chocolate taster at cadburys who has just got sick of it and fancies a marmite sandwich. Not that that is any kind of euphemism.

But it's the job he does, he teaches other people and many of his friends are women who he either pulled in the past, or didn't succeed with and became friends with instead. He really doesn't seem to be misogynistic

Oh. I now appear to have three potential dates on the go

Doctor lovely, from the email today. Another woman from OD who I exchanged mails with, suggested drinks a few days ago and gave up on, who's now come back with 'great, when?'
Another one who contacted me first but only had a photo of her back, I gave my email address to and she's sent photos of her and she's very attractive.

And FrenchGirl is messaging me on FB to say she can't wait to see me in 3 weeks when she comes to stay

When it rains, etc etc

i must admit i have enjoyed a ONS in the past, but i hate marmite!

sounds exciting bant!

Bant ooh make sure you have several degrees of separation between French Girl's arrival and any others. Don't want the thought of her arriving to go spoiling you

Howdo? What's happening?

News from me, my weekend away fail . Not sure if it's the end of the road but please daters just be honest with each other......

You okay scrazy?

Hi Bant, not sure tbh. It's a long story and identifying but an interesting one which involves a man who ties himself up in knots with lies (that he thought would be easier) when the truth would have been so much more palatable. Still, got the truth in the end which was fine but a trashed weekend which should have been lovely :(

Hi Wine, see my last post

Sorry to hear that Scrazy. What is it with men and lies .

Sorry Scrazy, that sounds shite.

Scazy I'm sorry.

Thanks. Yes I agree, it was a silly thing but I don't put up with shit anymore and if someone doesn't really want to be with me, wholeheartedly, after all this time then it's time to call it off. Will see what happens from now on.

I'm no angel but hell I try and be honest with people. Why should it be so hard. I know what I want and try to be straight up with men in my life.

sorry to hear that Scrazy

Sorry to hear that scrazy

Sorry scrazy. Hope you're okay

I've been dumped by mills and boon man.

Why? Because after receiving numerous sexually suggestive texts all day I finally texted back and told him he was making more of it than is really there - no, I'm not teasing you, no I'm not 'playing cool' and no, I won't be getting my kit off to swim or otherwise.

So he dumped me on the grounds that I'm "too troubled and intense" or - Oh so no shag then?

Scrazy can't bear a liar. Hope you're okay.

Wisey you are well out of it. What a divvy.

Bant I didn't think you would be sans laydeez for too long . . . What a difference a day makes and all that.