oooh i feel ridiculous

[ImNotBloody14]

So silly. I'm a NCing regular. and a real proper grown up, I swear

I fancy someone. But I cant get up the guts to let him know or even to contact him. I've added him on FB (it's taken me months to build up to that) and he accepted. he's liked a few of my posts and a photo. I keep seeing him online (butterflies) and want to make contact but cant think of anything to say that isn't a blatant excuse to get talking to him. AFAIK he's single- well it says so on his FB.

arrgh this is so frustrating. if this was my best friend she would be chatting away to him no problem.

don't know what i'm posting for- just need to get this out of my head.

Oh thank you for posting that - i was a bit apprehensive about inviting him here for a first date- I'm thinking what if theres mega silences and theres nothing to distract us or what if its a bit too intimate but I'm just going to treat it like I'm watching a movie with a friend and relax. I have a tendency to keep the barriers up anyway so I'm not worried about it moving to quickly

Oh no i dont think he will cause a problem- i was just thinking of possibilities and you hear things about men like that. He hasnt given me any indication that he would be.

I just put some music on and necked a couple of glasses of wine before he arrived

WE had a really lovely couple of months before we both went our separate ways. I was just coming out of a really nasty painful breakup and he was just what I needed at the time and I still think of him fondly.

Have a lovely time

There is a rather steamy scene in Pearl Harbour isn't there? That will be interesting on a first date. Have a fab time OP

*taps feet impatiently

Cough ......

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Come on OP! On the dating thread, they have to give a loo update

Delurking to hope things are going well... need an update (not living vicariously through this at all...)

Going well hes at the loo

argh! that's not enough info! promise you'll come back and give us a blow-by-blow account soon! lol

So is he still there because the film is long or things are getting steamy?

Need more info!!

And if you wouldn't mind answering these questions in your post date debrief we'd all be grateful!

What outfit did you go with?
Did he bring anything?
Then what happened?

I'm in pain from the suspense!

Loo updates are a must. I once had to go to the loo on a date and eat cereal bars discreetly as the numpty I was dating took me out for drinks at dinner time but didn't get me any dinner! He's now my dh.

Watching fruends akcholal has betn takfn. All hood

Soooooo?? Is he still there?? Details woman details!

Oops x post! Don't get too drunk to remember the snogging! :o

No snigging. Greay night like talking to a triend. He brouhj pringles and chocolate. What a guy!!! Hes just gone we dist even watch film as having too much craic talkng.

And he lloves bacon yoo

I wore jaeNs and a creamy coloured knitted top with a bit of hliter ibit

I'm going to have to do my drunk translation again aren't I?!

I love this thread.

Glad it went well op!

Op how you feeling today?!

Glad it went so wel!

Jeans, cream knit top with glitter on it and my slippers

We had a great time. So relaxed and just like talking to a long time friend. Didnt even get round to putting movie on. No awkward silences. He brought chocolate and pringles and bacon is his favourite food too!! ( he said it before i even mentioned it!) dcs woke up just as he arrived which wasnt great but he knows them and just chatted with them for a few minutes while i got them drinks. No snogging- we didnt seem to be in that sort of 'place' but i dont mind at all. Really enjoyed it and he said he did aswell.

My head is ok. For now.

I missed the updates last night having gone to my lonesome bed and passed out!

I love love love no snigging??

Glad you had a good time though op. sounds v promising.

When are you seeing him next?

I expect continued updates!