Just had the strangest date

[Amberz]

Met a guy online said he lived abit away from me, I was not keen to meetup
he persued the issue , to just meet for a coffee , I thought why not?.

Tell me if you think this is strange , he is seperated from wife as she had gone all spiritual and gone to live in a Teape, but HE lives in a Bothy, to do his writing of Prose , I ask myself what am I not getting here , he really was keen for me to go and see where he lived as i know the area well. Dont get me wrong I only live in a small place but it has bricks and mortar, did he really think I would find this invitation alluring ???????, please tell me I am right in saying NO .

Hope you find the book helpful, I read it in my teens and the 'rules' have stayed with me. (Can't remember much about the later parts of the book).

I do hope so Vivacia , I realise I need to relearn and change my thinking regarding this issue , many thanks for all your advice .

Yes BBQ summer , it was all RED flags so glad to have nipped it in the bud and quickly......................will need to be on my guard from now on and thans again for your help.

Sorry A1980 thanks for your advice and kind input take care