Hooray! Unexpected day off (well, half a day) has happened. Now attempting to catch up a little bit. Tough job seeing as there's 6 weeks worth though 
perhaps I should just stick to this thread!
Anyway...
Kin yes hopefully seeing BC next month, although I missed a call from him the other week and thought it was odd that he rang me, he usually will text first or just stick to email. Haven't heard anything since but that isn't particularly unusual for him and I haven't chased it up as been too busy. Gawd knows what that was all about, I expect I'll find out soon! Really hope the vaguely planned June shagfest is still on :o it had better be.
Now then so Mr Flirt. We actually have some history, where stuff nearly happened before with us. We snogged and played around a little bit but stopped before anything else happened. I was a bit drunk and not really bothered but I did ask why a little while later and he said he used to have a big problem with panic attacks and he could feel one coming on because it was 'something he hadn't done for a long time' so yeah, fair enough I can see why that would freak some people out. So that's the history anyway.
We've since got to know each other quite a lot more and I know he is really, really inexperienced in general, having been a late starter and only really had one long relationship with someone who I gather was never bothered about sex. So it's not just with the never having given oral thing.
I can tell the general lack of experience without him even saying, because if all the work so to speak is left to him he just keeps slipping out and can't control his errr angles and aim all that well.
I'll see him again and persevere a little bit though because he is a spectacular kisser which I LOVE (and also think is a good sign that there is hope) and because he was at least willing and very fast learning with the oral :o and because he is lovely and I do really really fancy him (MMmmmmmm MALENESS! RARR! 
) More than last time I saw him which is rather weird. And because we were at it for long his angles and aim were even starting to improve. I am making myself giggle here but I don't know how else to put it. I'm sure you all know what I mean :o
I have to say though if it turns out the non orgasming is down to too much porn use and needing to wank rather than cope with an actual real woman then that is a major dealbreaker for me and instant dumping. If not though if it's some kind of anxiety then maybe I can work with that a little bit and maybe it will be a little better next time around...