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Last train to Loserville Part 2

999 replies

LoserNoMore · 07/04/2013 21:55

After the overwhelming support I've received on my thread I had to start another. Well I didn't have to but I have found all the advice so helpful that even if I only receive one more piece it will help.

I'll try and post the link to the full sorry story. Never linked on my phone before so it may not work.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1722750-This-doesnt-look-good-does-it?pg=40&order=

OP posts:
LittleEsme · 14/04/2013 07:15

LNMShock you poor thing.
Is there anyone around you can text? What about your parents?
You know you're going to have to let your H know, don't you? God! What a thing to happen.

How are you feeling now? What have Docs done?

swallowedAfly · 14/04/2013 07:30

oh bless you. they'll have wanted to keep you in for observation with concussion presumably. hope they do their rounds quick this morning so you can get out of there at a reasonable hour.

CabbageLeaves · 14/04/2013 07:32

LNM. Hope you had a reasonable night. You will need rest and a quiet day. What can you arrange to make your day easier when you get home

toffeelolly · 14/04/2013 07:41

Oh LNM hope you get better soon and get out soon, you must have given yourself some knock. We are all thinking of you. Take care. x

themidwife · 14/04/2013 08:14

Oh fuck!! I hope you're ok LNM!!
What a nightmare!! Sad

WellWisher2 · 14/04/2013 08:19

Hello LNM, I am de-lurking here - I followed your previous thread from the beginning.

Shock to hear that you are in hospital - I hope you are discharged very soon. Flowers

Let me join all the other posters to say that I am very impressed with how you have handled everything from the beginning. I am very admiring that managed to keep such a cool head over the past two weeks despite the shock and pain. You have done really well, made great decisions and have accomplished much.

Hope you are soon safe at home with the girls.

Pannacotta2013 · 14/04/2013 08:23

Oh LNM! You poor thing. How rubbish Sad. I hope you managed some sleep. Good on you for taking your health seriously tho, even if it's meant a rubbish night in hospital x x

cjel · 14/04/2013 08:36

Glad you got checked. Have you managed to get hold of someone to be with you? Sending you big tearful hugsxxxx

swallowedAfly · 14/04/2013 08:40

i had concussion about 5 times as a kid - most bad enough to merit having to stay in to be observed and have xrays - can remember having to keep my head very still. much puking in cowboy hats in a&e in my memories of childhood.

hopefully you'll get the all clear in the morning and get to go home absolutely fine. my worst one was on the back of the head in such a way that my brain couldn't shake so bruised (forgotten what that's called) and even that was only 24hrs in hospital.

no wonder i'm a bit 'quirky' shall we say Wink

i'm gonna call the rule of three here - dh twattery, chicken pox, concussion. luck must turn now!

MrsTomHardy · 14/04/2013 09:20

Jeez hope you're ok OP....

CabbageLeaves · 14/04/2013 09:36

Rule of 3 indeed!

LNM. this nightmare will end and just think what a strong cookie you are.

Bossybritches22 · 14/04/2013 09:45

How are you this morning LNM ??!

getthegirladrink · 14/04/2013 09:46

Hope you're ok sweetheart. Guys - is there anyone near LNM who could take her a few bits 'n bobs? MN etiquette be damned

themidwife · 14/04/2013 09:49

Is it Glasgow?

WeAreSix · 14/04/2013 09:51

Hope you're soon feeling better Flowers

teamboleyn · 14/04/2013 09:57

I've PM her, I think I'm close by from some local references she's made.

themidwife · 14/04/2013 10:13

That's really kind of you teamboleyn. It reminds me how amazing mumsnetters can be!

LittleEsme · 14/04/2013 10:14

teamboleyn - if this is possible, and you do indeed take her some bits and bobs, PM me and I'll chip in the cost. Won't be much - paypal?

Areyoumadorisitme · 14/04/2013 11:15

Oh LNM, poor you Hmm. Hope you're doing ok this morning.

Will be thinking of you.

skyebluesapphire · 14/04/2013 11:22

Just caught up again, sorry you are in hospital, I hope that you have found somebody to help you and bring some stuff in.

DontWorryBaby · 14/04/2013 11:31

I'm nearby - doing my shopping in anniesland at the moment so would take ten minutes to pop along to the hospital that I think you're in, with some pjs & toiletries or whatever you need.

Original poster
LoserNoMore · 14/04/2013 12:08

Hi, I'm just home. Got home just in the nick of time for the girls being dropped off.couldnt stand another minute in there .. I feel ok physically, not so much emotionally. I miss H so much. I just want him to hold me and tell me everything has been a bad dream. I'm not crumbling, just at times like this, I feel so alone.

Thank you so much for offering to drop some bits and bobs off. That is really very kind. Thanks

OP posts:
skyebluesapphire · 14/04/2013 12:13

Glad you are home, but make sure that you take it easy. No running around, get some rest.

I remember those feelings well, still get them occasionally. The one person that you want to make it all better is the one person causing the pain. It's a paradox and it does fade in time when you remember what a shit they have actually turned out to be.

Have you got any friends or family that can come round to help you today?

cjel · 14/04/2013 12:24

Oh yes the pain of wanting it to be ok when you feel low is horrid, that real ache of wanting what was before lousy. but as you say its ok especially after a night like you've had. It has to be a tv and treats day today. Is this another excuse to get out of skipping now I've ordered a rope?

piratecat · 14/04/2013 12:31

so glad you are home. Get those girlies and have a snuggly evening. Can you stretch to a takeaway tonight? Big fat pizza and some garlic bread?

How's your head feeling. xx