Dating thread number 48 :-)

[MirandaWest]

Here's the latest thread for everything dating related. All welcome :)

OWW ok he's served his purpose, getting you back out there. You told him, he carried on, block. Fwiw I don't like that either, lots of people do of course but once you've said no, that should be respected.

thats a shame that he was being like that. I mean i like a flirt and stuff as much as the next man but if hes not respecting boundaries then its not on. Keep your chin up

Spence just think of these conversations as part of the confidence building. After being on here for a while, nothing will phase you

ha ha your not wrong juliette, i was getting a bit flustered reading everyones stories lol

I love flirting! And a bit of suggestive talk, well done, is very good too, and that would have been fine. But he just kept banging on (sorry) and not particularly well done, either.

In a relationship, some filthy talk/texting is wonderful. But not with someone I've only just met.

Do you think they'll all be online tonight, it being the holidays? I hope so

Think I might actually write a profile too, see if that helps. Any hints or suggestions?

Wine, surely it's in part because anal sex is over emphasized in porn...they absorb the message that it ought to be part of everyones sexual repertoire.

I'd hope that women have the confidence to not go along with this expectation if it's not what they want to do

wine i think that obsession has passed me by so i cant help on that one lol

im hoping it goes ok tonight im not looking to meet someone but i definitley want to just put myself our there and speak to new people

You'll have a great time tonight, Spence. Don't want to sound patronising but go easy on the beer if your emotions are in a raw state, can get a but messy otherwise (and I speak from experience). Talking to some new people and having a laugh sounds like a good plan!

its not patronising at all OWW i appreciate the concern, i wont be getting drunk im just gonna have a quiet few and try and enjoy myself.

Juliette I thought ds1 might have to have it done as he had a degree of phimosis but he didn't go on to develop any further problems so I let it be ( no idea whether it bothers him now and couldn't face enquiring - shudder ).

There are definite 'fashions' in medical procedures and theories, you get different advice depending on who you ask.

OWW that sounds particularly irritating, especially not stopping when you asked him to, smacks of a lack of respect.

OWW think you have the right thing, at the right time with the right person a bit of flirty, rude texting is nice but not stopping when you ask is a red flag! next!

spence have a good time, you'll find this thread is amazing, support, advice and tea and sympathy and LOTS of laughs!!

Kin I've just had cock shot of the day, goggled Phimosis. It was Wiki for goodness sake, I wasn't expecting that whilst eating my hot crossed buns.

Bloody hell, Juliette, I see what you mean.

tigsy i can already tell this thread is gonna be great for me. It will be so nice to seek advice from a female perspective. Im just grateful everyone has been so lovely to me and really helpful

An unexpected erection in the midst of one's hot cross buns is most disconcerting ( as Jane Austen often remarked )

Spence everyone on here is lovely, the advice and handholding is amazing.

im glad to hear it nora

i just wont get involved in the erection and circumcision discussions lol

Well quite, what is a Lady to do? plaster it across the internet obvs

spence sometimes we actively ask for the male perspective! be warned!

Juliette can't click on your link, curled up on the sofa next to Mr EA, not sure what he may say if he glanced over and saw an erect member in glorious technicolor on my phone

Please give me a huge fish slap and tell me not to text LM. I know it would be a terrible idea but I'm having a bad day today.

well in that case i will always be happy to answer questions if needed

Huge huge wet fish OWW, read what kin posted earlier. it's the come down from a pre date high and then MrV not being what you hoped. Do not text him, post on here instead and listen to the collective wisdom, big hugs too, it's a horrible feeling but you will feel worse if you text and he doesn't reply.