Dating chat thread! Number 47

[lubeybooby]

Here we go again folks, all dating related chit chat here.

New career KinNora: comedian

Western - I think when you speak to LM you should be completely honest, even about the part about you really not wanting to break up. And if he can't offer you more then the decision is yours as to if it's time to move on or not.

If he does seem like its possible he could meet you closer to what you want, then if you want to give him another chance that's fine. And don't feel like you should do x,y,z do what you need to do to make yourself happy!

Good luck xxxxxx

Aw allthese good looking young guys hanging out for a shag...sorry guys dont have the energy ...I've got the trots now...what the hell is going on???

Right, that's it, it's done.

I am having a personal cheesy disco on just dance on the wii to attempt to take my mind off weirdy stalker man.

Now reeelax, and get on your back!

If you wanna scream YEAHHH
Let me know and I'll take you there
Get you going like OOOoh baby baby, ooh baby baby...
ooh baby baby, ooh baby...

If you want it done right... hope you're ready to go allll night...

Erm, yeah. I might have opened the beer and in a slightly hyper mood for mischief with no one to mischief with! boo hiss.

What happened, OWW? Are you ok?

He phoned and said he's not coming over, coward. I said why not, he said he can't give me what I want, I said so why all the lies, bit more to- ing and fro-ing but it's finished.

Good.

Feel quite calm, oddly.

Missed that OWW, sorry :(

Sorry for the terrible cross posting. Thread was a few posts back when I posted then I went back to dancing about like a loon without checking

What happened?

and cross posted again.

he wouldn't even come over?

God. You have done the right thing hon. So very right.

what's done OWW?

OWW so sorry

Oh god cross post OWW, that's shit to not even come over .... take care sweetheart, post on here

That's rubbish of him OWW :( Totally rubbish. Not to even manage to come over and see you.

Sending you massive hugs (am not caring they are not MN things to do)

Unbelievable that he wouldn't come over again, but shows how much he valued what you had, ie: he didn't at all.What a coward and I think once you get over the initial pain from this, you will feel much better. Sorry he wasn't who you thought he was.

WFF re men staying friends, I have no idea as there have only been two I've like enough to want to. One said yes but turned out to be trouble (the reason I didn't want to date him) and this is the other one.

I have met my fair share of knobbers, bores, the entitled woman haters and philanderers. I had a lot in common with this man today, he was like a gay best friend but hetero.

Sorry to hear that OWW you will find someone else more deserving of you .. You were settling with LM

Juliette he does sound nice. Do you think he will take up the offer? You don't think he could be a grower?

TBF I've never found attraction grow unless there was something there in the first instance.

I'm sorry OWW that was really shitty and pathetic of him, he's not worthy of someone like you, fuck him.

OWW I missed your posts too. I'm so sorry. Well fuck him, he is so full of self pitying crap he manages to pull the 'poor me I can't give you what you want' each time rather than sort himself out. I doubt he could give anyone what they want, its nothing to do with you personally.

He served his purpose, you found out what great sex is like (and I can promise there is much more where that came from), you know you can love, you had a hint of what a relationship should be like and you will move forward to better that him. Your earlier post where you said similar was absolutely right. Maybe, he was your transition man.

I know it must hurt like hell, you've been through far worse, you will get through this. (((hugs)))

A massive squeeze hug from me OWW You are a strong courageous woman.

It hurts but it is a relief too.

Good. Glad I did it.

Well done for sorting it out. You've been really brave. And I suspect the calmness is due to knowing it's the right thing. I know you're worried that you'll miss him, but you barely saw him. There will be someone else along soon that you won't feel you have to badger for their company and endlessly stress that he doesn't feel the same way you do.

I'm sorry, in particular, that he's proved himself to be an utter coward.

Total yellow-bellied bullshitting toad.