To be a weeny bit suspicious of DP going to work today?

[TallDwarf]

DP owns his own company along with his business partner. He does sometimes work weekends but its always from home, today he has gone in to work in one of their popular city locations. It was a last minute plan that he announced on Friday. He said he needed a business meeting with his partner, but they're emailing each other every day and see each other at least once a week at work anyway so seemed a bit weird to give up a weekend day for this.

I've emailed him a couple of times this morning but not got a reply, but have had a text from him.

Am I reading too much in to nothing here? Just seems weird to go to work on a Sunday, text me but not read or reply to emails...?

OP, there are some utter shitbag wanker judgypants smug arse fuckers on this thread. Ignore them. They talk shit and are probably incapable of empathising, poor things.

I am so sorry that your suspicions were right. I hope there are people in RL on whom you can rely. I can totally see why you wouldn't want to come back here after the offence you've had to read here, but there are lots of people with practical advice and support who could be of use.

London ninja ...don't be so hard on yourself

Wow London, do you really need to use quite such aggressive language. One word would have done you know
I think you're getting a bit personally involved here.

:( so sorry to read the update.

At least you have the answer you needed. Hope you took photos in case he denies it.

Has he come back or tried to contact you?

Where do you want to go from here?

What did MIL say?

Hello everyone,

Thank you to all those who reported this thread to us. We can see that there has been some troll hunting, which is against our talk guidelines. We have no reason to suspect that the OP is anything other than genuine, and we'd like to remind you all the Mumsnet is primarily a place to make parent's lives easier.

So sorry to hear your suspicions were right. :( Hope you have the real life support you need. Keep posting in the Relationships section, there are some wonderful posters there who have been where you are now and can help you through it.

Why would someone who has told her husband she is coming to the hotel be with the other woman when his wife arrived?

Because OP told him she wouldn't come Xenia

She didn't tell her husband she'd be at the hotel. She told him she could meet him at the hotel and he was so unimpressed at the idea that it validated her suspicions about things not being quite right. He had no idea she was actually going to turn up.

I thought I read yesterday she had told him MIL was baby sitting. Any man with an IQ about 100 would then make sure the other woman was immediately removed from the vicinity unless he has fallen in love and wants his marriage to break up to be with the love of his life, new woman of course.

But he wouldn't tell her which hotel it was. Although he was at their favourite restaurant (not that he told her that)

Tbh I think some of the posts that were slightly doubtful were quite tame? The only posts that were getting hysterical were the posts by avid believers.
I honestly don't know why people invest so much emotional energy on either side. Give ur advice/opinion people don't have to start hair pulling

Us again,

We're going to move this thread to relationships now, as we think it's the best place for it.

ReAd the thread! She didn't go to the hotel, she went to the restaurant after telling DH she wouldn't come!

I didn't take photos but I doubt I'll need them. We're not married so no divorce needed and he'd be stupid to deny it now anyway. Plus MIL is fully aware of everything. She came round late last night and took me back to her house and has been looking after me since. There's nowhere to go from here, it's more than over.

I think I'm going to have to get this thread deleted now. I don't have the energy to deal with the troll hunting that is taking over it now. I'm sorry it doesn't look like a real situation, in fact I'd give anything for it to all be made up :(

I just wanted to update those that do care that I'm ok, just worn out.

Glad you are being looked after

Look after yourself tall

You deserve better x

Really hope you are ok, you will get through this. you need support from your good friends and family at this time, stay strong. x