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To be a weeny bit suspicious of DP going to work today?

403 replies

TallDwarf · 17/03/2013 11:09

DP owns his own company along with his business partner. He does sometimes work weekends but its always from home, today he has gone in to work in one of their popular city locations. It was a last minute plan that he announced on Friday. He said he needed a business meeting with his partner, but they're emailing each other every day and see each other at least once a week at work anyway so seemed a bit weird to give up a weekend day for this.

I've emailed him a couple of times this morning but not got a reply, but have had a text from him.

Am I reading too much in to nothing here? Just seems weird to go to work on a Sunday, text me but not read or reply to emails...?

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50shadesofknackered · 17/03/2013 22:01

That's awful! What a bastard! Oh op, I can't imagine how crap you feel! You can get through this, don't leave the thread you will get loads of advice and support here.

LandofTute · 17/03/2013 22:01

Sorry your fears were confirmed OP. You will get a lot of support on Mnet if you want it. The Relationships board is very good.

FaceCake · 17/03/2013 22:02

Oh TD take care of yourself, make sure you've got people in rl to help you through this. What a bastard.

SweetSeraphim · 17/03/2013 22:02

You'll be surprised how much support you can get here, OP. Don't leave the thread, just post when you can. People are here to help.

SpottyTeacakes · 17/03/2013 22:03

I'm so sorry TD Sad

QOD · 17/03/2013 22:04

Oh man.

We are here for you

SpringyReframed · 17/03/2013 22:04

Really sorry OP. Do come back and post. You will get wonderful support here not to mention a great chance to vent.

Ullena · 17/03/2013 22:04

Don't get drunk alone op. Get someone round. If you have to be alone, stick to hot chocolate, cake and icecream. Or a kebab. Comfort eating is fully justified at times like this Sad

As for him...change the locks time!

2anddone · 17/03/2013 22:05

Sorry to hear that TD hope you get support either in rl or on here x

nkf · 17/03/2013 22:06

Don't get too drunk. You'll feel worse tomorrow.

mum11970 · 17/03/2013 22:07

So sorry TD. Don't run away from MN, the relationship board is full of useful information and hand holding.

NorksAreMessy · 17/03/2013 22:08
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StillStuck · 17/03/2013 22:09

so sorry to hear that Sad I hope you get lots of real life support. and the relationships board is really supportive as well. take care of your self.

Talkinpeace · 17/03/2013 22:09

I am SO SO sorry that I was wrong.
Well done for slapping him.

Masai · 17/03/2013 22:10

What a total cunt :( am so so sorry for you. Don't feel like you have to post just cos everyone is telling you to. You have good instincts sweety. Use them now to do what feels right for you and your little one.

Cut up all his nice suits, get pissed and cry yourself to sleep. Then in the morning consider what you need to do next. Right now its shock and feeling sick... So give in to it for a bit.

You sound like such a lovely woman. So please please let ppl help you in real life that know you xxx

MrsCosmopilite · 17/03/2013 22:15

Oh, TD I'm sorry.

I was lurking, wondering what to advise, then saw you'd gone to do a bit of detective work. I'm sorry your suspicions were confirmed.

Please don't leave MN, and please don't get too drunk.

As others have said, please do let people here and in RL help you. Oh, and take the bastard for every penny.

makemineapinot · 17/03/2013 22:15

So sorry tall dwarf, but you know now and you will get support here. Take care and come back here you will get tons of really good advice. Look after yourself.

threesypeesy · 17/03/2013 22:18

So sorry op xx

MammaTJ · 17/03/2013 22:18

Sorry you were right. I was hoping he would be meeting a real live business contact!

CabbageLeaves · 17/03/2013 22:18

His loss TD. You will recover and be better off without such a low life

verytellytubby · 17/03/2013 22:18

What a cunt.

mummymccar · 17/03/2013 22:20

So sorry Tall xxx

PeppaFuckingPig · 17/03/2013 22:36

I speak as someone who discovered her (now ex) dp was cheating on the day i brought our first (and only) child home from hospital...you will get over this. You deserve better. You will get better.

For now, cry, scream, eat as much as you want - try to avoid too much alcohol , share with other people. Be strong. Look after yourself. He is not worth it.

Loulybelle · 17/03/2013 22:39

Oh jeez, what a shit think to see, i hope hes humiliated.

LindyHemming · 17/03/2013 22:39

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