Grrrr. Can't sleep... I'm wound up. It's always injustice that winds me up the most and keeps me awake!
Biggest annoying thought at the moment is that if he had an issue with the amount then he could have and should have said so at the goddamn time when I could have attempted to make other arrangements or wait for NHS, not when it's already done and I've budgeted accordingly, by the skin of my teeth. And that going along with it just to make sure I danced to his tune is lower than Jeremy Kyle guest behaviour.
I intend to politely and Britishly crush him, as only a polite British woman can do.
Velvet - I really don't blame you for your patience with C wearing thin, he really is getting silly again now. I am concerned too that you really don't seem any happier or more fulfilled than when you were actively looking on PoF, which says a lot about how much he enriches your life... namely not at all, but yet despite clearly giving off different vibes and attracting many men, you're not interested in any of them because of that knob C. It's like the very WORST of both worlds for you at the moment, and that's not fair.
You deserve vastly more, and I really hope C can sort his life out a bit and give you more - he only stands to gain from it too, so it's really not a big thing to ask of him.
I would make a special case here and text I think and ask to meet just for a coffee or drink (if he can't do an overnighter) and have a talk about this. Then if he really can't get a grip, more contact, trip to the pub on a weeknight sometimes, meeting a bit more regularly, generally not keeping you as a puppet on a string... time to say bye bye and be held back by him no longer.