Dating thread no 45

[JulietteMontague]

Online and real life dating chat, all welcome

Ok, bored and wanting to meet people who enjoy life. No complications just want to spend time getting to know each other and see what happens. Baby steps if required or cut the crp and enjoy!

Ladies, guys don't want to jump into commitment! If they are ugly, then maybe this is true, if not then no! A normal healthy chap will be looking for a women he finds hot. He will then want to get to know her to see if she is not crazy. Then he will want to find out if she will quench his thirst for sex.

If these boxes are ticked then you stand a chance of commitment! Had to break my silence as its just sad and a bit pathetic to demand commitment as a must when you haven't even started!!!

much love xxxx

Ladies take note! Heed the warning sistas.....what?????You're not interested???How come???

Ike1, he sounds a catch...

And what's with the 'much love' how old is he, 16?

In his 40's ....dear lord its the arrogance...he speaketh for all men obvs....betcha glad he's voiced your secret thoughts eh Bant, Voice, Bill et al...

I have an image of all these men needing to slake their unquenchable thirst for sex before agreeing to a further date...which obs we women are begging and pleading for....oh toss off you wanker!

Oh guess what? He's a Scorp!

Ike, thanks yes, my brain chemistry is improved...I do sometimes quite enjoy wallowing in a bit of angst
Pity the poor deluded 40 year old scorpio bloke.

Quite a few people, men & women have preachy or ranty 'sermons' in their profiles!

has it occurred to him that she may deem him totally inadequacy for the purposes of quenching her unquenchable thirsts??

Well of course not Merc...she is too busy worrying about getting him to commit! Oh yeah loads of preachers and flouncers...they make me laugh so much! And the 'what is wrong with me?' Angsters...

dating site profiles can make for some 'entertaining' reading
dread to think what anyone makes of mine

As long as you are not sermonising, flouncing, angsting, loling or huning...you will at least come across as a salient human being on POF...

Bant's not home yet I see (taps watch)...

Oh my! Mr Irish has just left. Wow!!!

Ok so Number 1 is out of the running. He annoyed me last night. He basically said that women who don't wear make up and paint their nails are common and rough spelt ruff. Now seeing as i do both of these i don't know why it made me so cross but it did. So i said he was coming across as shallow and he didn't take it very well.

In other news an ex from long long ago popped over yesterday. We were talking about Pof and he said if i ever wanted sex then to call him! I was in such shock all i could say was no over and over again! Then when i went to the toilet he followed me upstairs and asked if i was masturbating in the toilet! So he was kicked out pretty sharp.

Pom....come on! Gory details please! Jan what the actual?????? That is appalling! How horrid!

Pome

Hi everyone, can I join please? I'm on a dating mission and think I'm being a bit crazy as a result, so, I could use some perspective. I've been single for many many years, quite happily really but as I'm getting older I feel I need to make more of an effort. I'm meeting someone 12 years younger for coffee today. I'm ok to find friends with benefits too. I'm vaguely involved with someone inappropriate and I know I should blank him but I'm drawn to the drama I suppose. I'm really bored with my life! Is it ok to use dating to spice up your life?

Actually I've just read the last few posts. Clearly it is ok to spice things up through dating :)

Ooops I would say dating is better than being involved with Mr Inappropriate or drugs or...(scratches head)

pom

wine difficult one. Manners cost nothing. If someone had taken the time to write something lovely, but I didn't fancy them I'd sometimes drop them a line with a thanks but no thanks... But that wouldn't happen very often...

janflan ugh. To both of them. The first one really thinks women should keep themselves 'pretty' within the confines of what society generalises is an acceptable appearance for a woman. The second one, just ugh. 'Yes, I'm just finishing myself off, because that's infinitely preferable to having you touch me'...

Nameless is lovely. That's not even an update, just a statement of fact. He's abso-fucking-lutely GLORIOUS. he's been great about the herpes-scare. I want to sit on a porch in a rocking chair with him when we're eighty (alright, I'd be eighty...he'd be 68) watching the sunset, surrounded by great grandchildren and colostomy bags....

And HAPPY MOTHERS DAY you wonderful nest of vipers. Hope you all have lovely days. :)

Ike I know but Mr inappropriate is exciting and really good in bed :)

daisy hello! Define 'inappropriate' though... There are degrees of inappropriate ness....

Oh yeah forgot! Happy Mum's Day! Eventhough ds arrived at my bedside fully clothed to save me nagging him later cos it is mother's day...he's such a lov
ely, little boy.

Snape, I can't put my finger on it. I think he's playing with me. I've tried not to play but I find myself drawn in. To be fair to him I did say I only wanted him for his body. He's too complimentary but it all feels disingenuous. I'm sorry if that's too vague :)