my hills were immensely zaftig after DC1. larger than my head
could have cashed in back then sigh Post 2 DC they are - er, still upright, but considerably less zaftig *sobs sobs sobs
Kitty, keep it up 
themidwife I am sorry to read about DS2, I guess it's one of those things, that once the first offence is there, is no longer such a deterrent so it's harder and harder to stop reoffending. To you and me it would be shocking and life destroying, but to many it is staggeringly normal
I hope there is good support in place for him. There's not a lot you can do, it's specialist territory- 19 is still so young and I'm sure he's a very capable lad I am sure he will turn his life around, but I hope it is sooner rather than later. Such a waste. Must be so so hard to know what to do.
summerdad good to hear you have been sleeping more, good that you are getting the chance to talk about and explore some of your concerns
kitty I often say to myself under my breath 'physician heal thyself' haha. I am remarkably self aware- I know absolutely everything that I do wrong. But I still go and do it all wrong

Just got back from a very fabulous debate