Hey, it's the Dating thread... number 37

[lubeybooby]

Of we got - all dating chit chat here!

I don't know why the Lubey but thanks anyway. :o

Through door of darkened room....are we done now??? This shall forever more be known as Fleecegate...

i didnt say ' ew, fleece'

fucking hell.

i said the date was dire.

it was dire, the man throws things at cats and thinks its funny.

I did not run screaming because of a fleece. i fucking wear fleece when camping or slobbing out at home

if he had been nice in some way, i would have maybe been attracted to him. But i wasnt. It was a on the run comment.

And i will see things as an attack, when the person who is attacking me, admitts to doing it, when they wouldnt others.

oww I had a chance to read back over some of the stuff about LM, and I'm really glad you're sticking with it. Difficult times when you've been dating someone for a week or two are a bad sign, but he's been through some shit, and so have you, and sometimes you post on here about how happy he makes you feel and it's just lovely and makes us all grin. I think that's worth holding out for, but you do need to try to worry less.

Pssssst, the darkened room has booze and chocolate and scented candles, everyone welcome.

No fleeces.

As we're doing the [flower] thing, Florence ...

Here's a [flower] and for the kind words. I tell you the word concise and me ... I could get over-excited

Ooh yes OWW, go for the saucy undies plan.

Would the booze include gin Arse?

No Arse dont invite that lot in I'm not bloody sharing....

Another vote for saucy undies, or just a towel ... big bath sheet kinda thing is decent enough but you both know there's nekkidness underneath Have fun OWW!!

Indeedy do, Joy ( not for me though, bad incident Boxing Day 1984, gin + homemade piccalilli - not happy bedfellows )

Oh now I could go for gin. I like this darkened room.

I'll bring tapas Ike ...

Only if its veggie Joyless, with no carrots or peas (picky)...

Ike, we're all about the inclusivity.

Lubey - plenty of gin for all you sickos discerning laydees

Oh, I do like a bit of piccalilli. Should I bring cheese & crackers as well as a bottle of Bombay?

I effing knew you would say that Arse (sulk)...

Oh for fucks sake.

I am summarising with 'eww fleece' I am capable of scrolling back a bit. I appreciate it was posted on the run, that was explained later all I am saying is that I can see why bant jumped, particularly given the history of disagreements. Because at that point it was basically 'I don't like what he's wearing, so no'. Obviously that looks as shallow as fuck. It then transpires that watch admirably saw the date out when it was difficult to do so, because he had the personality of a particularly dull slug and then went on to explain herself fully. Like I said, she explained and it THEN SHOULD HAVE BEEN LEFT.

How on earth am I being held up as some kind of hypocrite for this? I'm not attacked (at the time) because my comment was in a wider context.

I do hope you're not being passive aggressive, Ike.

But, You know, if you actually see an attack in everything, even if it's actually a Bit supportive, because you need the full, unbridled support of everyone then fine. Take it as an attack, enjoy. I'm done with this particular line of 'discussion'.

Snape, we have rum and a big fuck off birthday cake in the darkened room, come join us

I can do passive and aggressive equally well..emotional multi-tasker, me..

how on earth am i being held up as some kind of hyprocite when i said a date was dire???

its the same thing, and fucking maddening when an attack is totally unjustified, isnt it.

Also, bant kept repeating that i had run out on the date, when i had stayed and given it a chance.

And yes, it should have be left. but he keeps coming back, even when he says hes not going to, and throwing more shit at me, and as you can see, by being infuriated enough to post... when somone is saying stuff that it utter shite, you defend yourself.