Smooth we've all been there, thinking 'did he really just say/do that' and not quite wanting to believe it happened.
Whoever said upthread it takes a couple of days to really digest a date was so right. What do you think about this?
When I met Mr Vague last week we had late afternoon coffee, then he suggested we go for a drink. Fast forward to early evening, we're getting on. Suddenly he planted a kiss on my mouth. Now, it wasn't welcome, I didn't give any signs of wanting it, it was quick and not an attempted snog. I didn't like it, it made me feel uncomfortable. I withdrew somewhat, told him mouth kissing was very personal to me, he said it was a cheeky kiss that's all 
and nothing was meant by it. No apology. It also reminded me of the Death Row Lawyer who clamped himself to my mouth on saying goodbye which was basically assault. He had already asked if he could call me again after the coffee part of the date, we continue to chat and we leave soon after.
On the way to train, he told me to put my arm through his. I didn't want to. I held his hand instead and kept my body distance. A couple of texts later that evening agreeing we'd had a good time.
Next day I text, saying was feeling fragile and joking he had led me astray (meaning wine), he (what I thought was a joke) suggested I share dinner with him that eve to use up food before he went off for C. I said something about 'not sure I should trust you, me being a light weight' and his reply was of course I could trust him, he was cheeky but not disrespectful, I would be his guest...we would catch up soon' I hadn't meant that at all (or maybe subconsciously I did). Nothing since.