Men who don't watch porn

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I do not believe all men watch porn.

However I wonder why they dont with it now being the "norm"?

Was there never any interest in the first place? Has it lost its shine? Is it a for feminist reasons?

Or is it more of a case of resisting temptation? As in they do want to watch but guilt and/or morals stop them? Fear of being caught?

We live in a time when we are constantly fed the message all men watch porn so nobody ever discusses those that don't watch it.

Thisis, yep. Its a rather arrogant view to take, imo.

It's been mentioned loads of times, i'm not sure by who without checking but there seems to be some idea that if you use porn it will affect a real life sexual relationship.

Of course some people aren't into porn, women and the husbands of women who don't like porn (That's a joke).

I am a man.

I don't like porn.

I used to when younger, but now I don't; for all sorts of reasons.

1. I am not lying.

1. I have a fairly high sex drive.

That is all.

If you really did have a catch up, you would have seen about ten posters say they didn't see porn usage as cheating, but that doesn't fit in your or andulas argument, does it, so you've chosen to ignore it to play the 'silly-jealous' women card.

So i see you have all reported me? Truth hurts ay?

Son of Arcadia. That is not all. You must be lying because your opinion doesn't fit in andula and shoes' world view.

Andual and shoeisme might genuinley believe they are right though. If they are basing their opinion on ancedotal evidence perhaps for them it is correct given their ages.

It shame though in spite of large amount of posters saying their dhs dont watch it they refuse to revise their opinion.

My dh USED to watch it, as did I on rare occassions but no he really doesnt anymore.

if you use porn it will affect a real life sexual relationship.

It can do exactly that. I'm living proof.

Actually I do see porn as type of cheating so there is some truth to the argument.

Why does that make my objection less worthy than others? Why shouldn't it matter?

shoesme - is it a coincidence that all the women on here who are so vocal about being anti-porn have all got husbands/partners that don't watch it? Just saying

Is it really difficult to believe that someone would lie to their partner about watching another women have sex? I have not mentioned anything about women thinking it?s cheating so I don?t know why you?ve brought that into the equation. In my opinion, men will lie to their partners about having watched porn, I know men who do lie about that. I?m not saying it?s the correct thing to do but IMO it happens.

I'm not vocal about being anti-porn in rl, its only when the subject arises. which isnt often.

yorkshire you were reported for being a troll. toodle off now, theres a dear.

Oh andula, I'm not even that vocally anti porn. I'm just anti being told my husband is a liar and that im jealous.

you just don't get it do you?

Andula, i'd love to hear what their husbands talk about down the pub ha

I'm aware that somemen will lie about it. I had a boyfriend who lied about it. and that was when I was a lot younger and going through a wild spell and had no opinion of porn one way or another. I was more upset that he lied than him using porn.

just because your paranoid doesn't mean your husband's not watching porn

Shoeisme

Of course porn effects relationships in so many ways. From small arguments to divorces . How about he risk of loss of your ability to get an erection for " real life sex". Your kidding yourself it doesn't effect relationships or your own well being.

I fear my dds future. Sex is no longer about love. Thats too old fashioned.

tends to be football. hth.

actually, he has discussed porn. he told me when we were talking about it yesterday. three of the five friends he was with dont use porn. they just didnt find it that sexy. one of the users used it almost every day, and the other only watches it with his dw.

Andula

You think your so clever dont you?

Even if my dh wanted to, when would he get a chance?

Unless he is danger wanking on the 17.06 back from Waterloo of course

What about the posters on here who have said they watch porn but their (male) partners don't? What reason would these men have to lie?

I find it interesting that neither andula or shoes have answered the questions posed about the morality of the sex industry.

Me too obscured.

Why lie if you know your dp wont mind?

It doesn't always, i've had healthy relationships and porn didn't ruin them, maybe it's just me and with still being in my 20's i can watch some porn in the day, meet a woman at night, show her a good time, show her a good time a few more times, then it?s off to sleep for cuddles. All with my emotional wellbeing intact after seeing a penis on screen.

They've answered fuck all because they haven't even read the questions. They have just made so many stupid assumptions it is incredible to believe.

Neither Andula or Shoes know how to use you're correctly.

Is that significant?