Yoga going back to the last thread, I'm with you in that I'm looking for the whole package, so to speak, and the Coffee, however hot, is just one element of that. At the moment I'm really hoping I've found something good but only time will tell.
Twat of an ex still hasn't signed. No idea what to do. He's ignoring all communications from sol and estate agent.
It will be two years in January I've been free of him. I don't miss him one bit, neither do the children. He will die a sad and lonely man. But he casts a long shadow and I just want/need this house sale to be done then that's it and I really can make a fresh start, hopefully with LM, in 2013.
I waited eighteen months before I started dating. I knew when I felt ready. I still have a few wobbles but after eighteen years with an abuser I suppose it's no wonder that I don't have as much confidence as I might. I'm getting there, though. Looking back over the past two years, I'm amazed at what I've achieved - moved areas, sorted out new school for dcs, got a new job, bought and started to refurbish a house, got a new car, faced ex in court and won, worked hard to keep the dcs safe and happy, learned to drive on the motorway and got a new man. Phew.