ok he's gone for the time being, he text me to say he would leave me alone if thats what I want.....hmmm we'll see! I need to make a list of all the things he's done to me or some of them so I can look at it everytime I feel vunerable, or slightly tempted to go back. Don't feel you have to read this is just for me.
said he wasn't on any dating sites anymore, I checked and there he was and actually tried to talk to me not realising it was me
chatted up at least 3 women on facebook, asking for a dirty picture, saying he wanted to poke one for real.
told me to wind my neck in when I told a shop assistant I didn't want to open a store card
when I changed my mind about what pasty I wanted once he shouted 'what the fucking hell did you do that for'
shouting at me for burning a pizza 'can't you read instructions, can you do anything right, how do you survive'
critising my cooking,what I wear, how I run my business, me as a mother, how I keep my house, the colour of my nail varnish, the colour of my clothes.
critising how I did things on valentines day
having a woman friend who could do no wrong, letting her buy him unappropiate gifts, belittling my feelings about it saying it was wrong to feel the way I did. Telling me how much better she was at doing things than me.
Having a fit for sitting too close to him when he's trying to eat.
Loosing his temper over anything
mood swings, snappiness, being argumentative but always my fault
Loosing his job due to his boss not been able to work with him due to his attitude.
Making comments during sex such as 'for someone who does zumba your fucking shit at moving your hips'
Getting cross with me in bed because I wasn't doing it right.
wanting me to be with another woman so he could watch. Put me on a site for this sort of thing got cross with me when I wouldn't chat other women up, or had a go at me for saying the wrong thing.
Always wanting me to perform sexual acts on him, but I got no affection.
I should be the one that initiates sex, affection, holding hands, cuddles, hugs etc. Its a woman thing.
Making threats when I've ended it
Ruined my Birthday by loosing his temper when me and the kids were in the car, told me I was pathetic for crying and acting the victim.
Lost his temper another time in the car, I tried to ignore him to try and diffuse the situation, but he threatened to throw me out the car and slammed his foot on the brake. I had no idea were I was.
Told me my outfit for going out was not very flattering, then getting in a mood because I was upset, which resulted in him loosing his temper smashing stuff up which resulted in me calling the police.
Various other shouting, put down moments. I'm not a real woman because I don't bake all day, his cooking is better blah blah blah!