And sponge - I wasn't saying those were my views, I was saying those were views held by men after talking with them down the pub.
So, I'm 38, separated just under a year, two DD (6 and 4) who are, quite frankly, awesome. I had a few OD dates, where there just wasn't a spark, so I was thinking that maybe all the emails and phone calls beforehand to make sure she wasn't insane (which a few women are) kind of ruined all the anecdotes and funny stories - or at least took away some of the stuff to talk about on a first date.
Then, 5th girl I met up with in real life, was really very beautiful, and funny. and interesting and intelligent. We talked the place closed after 4 hours of coffee and drinks, then I walked her back to her car and a quick kiss. And so much eye contact.
Then , second date, lots of talking again over sushi, walked her back to her car. By this point I'd realised she wasn't that great at responding to texts - as in it took her a day to respond. Or sometimes two. But. a few more kisses when I walked her back to her car again, and I asked her if she'd be up for a 3rd date, she said yes.
So, a week later, she cancelled due to sickness. She was really looking forward to it, but was too ill, could we do next week. So of course I texted to say yes. And then no response. So I'm confused. She was making all the eye contact, she was very much looking forward to next date, she cancelled, she didnt respond. I should pack it it now, right?