He's obsessed with sex...

[Littleblue]

We have been dating six months , and they have largely been the happiest ever for me , except for his obsession with sex.... he takes it as rejection if I turn him down , and mostly manages to get over it.... but I turned him down last night , I was tired and stressed and not in the mood , (and his expectation is a huge turn off anyway)We were snuggled up , and he kept groping me which I was fending off but gently , to me it should be clear by then?! so he turns my face to his and insists on proper tongue snogging , which I had been evading... I HATE snogging if i'm not in the mood for sex.. I'm not frigid , when were both in the right mood the sex is incredible....he seems to think that because thats the case , we should ALWAYS be at it... so pissed off ,he turned his back on me last night, he's clearly sulking today...

he admitted he just needs to leave me alone...

what totally, no more being in contact alone?

Yep , blocked..... done

Hes gonna fetch his stuff and drop mine of so we dont have to see each other...at my behest

Nice one Blue - well done. Onwards and upwards!

Knowing somethings the right decision doesnt stop you feeling flayed tho does it... but enough self pity , will take my dogs out tomos and shake this off... reconnect with me

Great move, lb

thanks motherfucker...lol

Hope it went ok littleblue

It was horrible tbh

Are you ok, love?

did you meet up somewhere neutral. did he say much.

Not surprised you feel horrible - what you've achieved today usually does feel hideous especially in the immediate aftermath.

Waving Pom Poms here for you and a quote from the late great Bill Hicks springs to mind - 'it's a piece a shit, walk away'

Hoping you'll start to feel better soon as you continue to walk away x

It was all on the phone.... he made it worse by agreeing with me tbh... think hes thinking maybe in a few weeks the picture will look brighter.. so I blocked him... Im due to exchange stuff with him tomos , so we draw that line.... on the scale of horrible men? hes on the entitled , baffled , screwed up but wants to be a better person scale.... thats not me softening , its me grieving for what we could have been..... hes mildly disabled btw , it never mattered to me , but it might have been a part of what shaped the man he became.... I miss him terribly , but its done.... he damn near killed me with his crap....

It does feel awful, doesn't it? A good clean pain, though, scouring the infection out of the wound. Not the simmering resentment pain that would have killed the relationship anyway.

Onwards and upwards! Take good care of yourself, okay? Eating reasonably well, getting enough sleep, talking to mates, all important parts of self-care! x

blipping... hear you , yes , but hurting so deeply.... feel like im being flayed, all tears and snot..lol

Oh littleblue I hope you are feeling better this morning and are getting some sleep. Call up on all the RL support you can, I am thinking of you and if it makes you feel any better your example is giving me the strength to do what I have to do in my own little Benny Hill episode.

I also hope you are feeling better this morning Littleblue. Stay strong.
Cannot you are up early too, are you ok?

I have an early-rising 16 month old. 5.30am on the dot every morning! I am sat here thinking that I need to end my relationship, was posting more on another thread but DP read it. I care about him very much but our relationship is like littleblue's if they had stayed together and had 2 kids, because she had not recognised his behaviour as being wrong. It is tough. I am hijacking again!

Oh Cannot, I feel your pain, PM me if you need a rant or a shoulder.

I'm finding it very hard , heartbreakingly so... whatever you all think of him , and I know you are right , he was also someone I shared more love and laughter with than I have ever experienced.... so its crushing right now....but yes , thankfully we didnt make babies , as I know there is no future in it , just so sad its come to this...

Oh and no worries on the hijacking... carry on , I hope you see your way through the maze too x

Haven't read whole thread but from your first few posts there are some MASSIVE red flags, please get out now while you still can.

Sorry, just caught up a bit. Sirry you're so upset op, must be heartbreaking but I think it is for the best.