Sofas and Slankets V Irregular choice shoes and Snogging - Dating Thread 23

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do it - anything to distract you from mr60.

is there any one else decent about? have you had a good search recently?

talking books with pirate, we both text at the same time, how nice it is to read, snuggled up with somone, and then we both lol'ed and said would like to do that soon. hes made some nice statements this afternoon, so i kind of think we are heading into the exclusive/ in a relationship catergory. which is totally nuts and probably racing way ahead ( and thats what i would tell anyone) but it kind of feels right. i really like him.... :)

Aha free winks sponge, I see! I don't really get why all these men bother joining then, just to wink over and over at the same women, with no way of speaking or even meeeting them. A bunch of winkers!

Have fun Western!

Watch, that's lovely. So what if it's racing ahead if it feels right and you like him? Just keep your wits about you if you have any doubts at all.

after the puppy i will be keeping a super watchful eye out :)

i dont know, its just weird. Even he said on friday, its just nuts how well we get on, and how we have totally so much in common. Feels like we have known each other ages, but we have only had 3 dates.

LOL @ 'A bunch of winker'!

watch, that sounds so lovely. And yes, I have been looking, on GS & OKC (even been on a few dates if you recall) but just no one that's doing anything for me. Meh.

watch NO exclusivity until you've actually slept with him please. he might be useless.

right. here we go

"Close friends are truly lives treasures, sometimes they know us better than we know ourselves. With gentle honesty they are there to guide us and support us, to share our laughter and tears. Their presence reminds us we are never truly alone" - Vincent Van Gogh

"We look at each other with shy relief. It's the look two odd socks give when they recognise each other in the wild"

"Try to understand the blackness, lethargy, helplessness and loneliness they are going through. Be there when they come through the other side. It's hard to be a friend to somebody who's depressed, but it is one of the kindest, noblest and best things you will ever do." Stephen Fry

"who could refrain that had a heart to love and in that heart, courage to make that love known?" - shakespeare

"it's a wait so long. you'll never wait so long" - the pixies

and in a curious circularity, met PM three years ago today :)

thats a bit of a fuck isnt it.
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it is a crap situation to be in, i feel for you. i was stuck in something similar for AGES...

oh, i love the first two, esp the socks.

i kind of dont care about the sex right now. werid huh.

Trust me, you'll care about the sex if he's lousy. :). You'll sleep together when the time is right and I do appreciate your caution, but don't go all swoony and then end up with completely mismatched libidos. :)

haha, that is probably right!!!

he kisses most excellently though.
but that is wise,still, nice to know we are both thinking the same and wanting to head in that direction...

Oh wow snape that is a beautiful present, I hope he's worthy of it

Nah, he's an idiot. But he's my beautiful, annoying, exasperating, wonderful idiot .

I'll post them all in order, the night before I wrap it up for him, hopefully a new thread by then...

Snape - stunning & awe inspiring as always

snape thats just amazing.

Honestly if PM doesnt like it, I will track him down and slap him. He would have to be blind and stupid not to be bowled over by it.

watch I can see where Snapes coming from re the sex thing. I've waited with 2 Exs, with completely different outcomes - first one the sex was appalling. Honestly the worst sex I have ever had. It was awful cos I did like him, but sex-wise we were utterly incompatible. However the other Ex it was the best sex ever, all the more so because we were so at ease with each other because we'd waited so long.

On balance because the bad outcome was SO bad, I'd say don't go too swoony UNTIL you've slept with him. After that you can swoon as much as you want

I foresee no chance of me ever swooning over anyone certainly not for a long time - on my night out last night looking rather fab not one man spoke to me...only girls! However I still haven't text ScaredofPeas which is something!

sponge. If he doesn't 'get' it by which I mean fall at my feet whilst losing the majority of his clothing you have my permission to track him down and slap him. It won't be difficult. I'll give you his address.

Ohhhhh lovely lovely date with the optician. I think we are now "seeing each other" rather than online dating. So very glad I gave him another chance. Sat in his car outside by house snogging with the babysitter twitching the curtains. Wish the logistics were easier, lots of children between us but never mind. He is really nice. Very northern sense of humour etc just like me, we get on so well and I just want to jump the bugger. Need a better name for him than the optician, which isn't at all sexy or alluring! Seeing him again in the week but he has his mum staying which means no sex again as I think it's too soon for him to come here in case the children come in. Oh well. Feeling very happy.

western. That's lovely. :)

Snape Here comes your man!

Love the Pixies!

Snape I luffs it. Esp the black dog.

Watch yeah, much as i hate to admit it, its kind of necessary to sleep with them first. I haven't even snogged Science Boy yet and am hoping he's a good kisser.
But i also know what you mean about not being bothered about the sex. Having had plenty of "movie sex" in my time with the whole spectrum from emotional inadequates to downright abusive, and all levels from crap sex upwards, I'll settle for sweet and loving and emotionally "connected" over furniture-breaking any day.
Western ooooh! Thats fab. I dont have a sexy name for mine either.
Sponge so glad youre sounding strong and resolute, and staying with us!

Morning all ..

Was scraping my car this morning and spotted something under my windscreen. It is a ripped envelope with a mobile number with a x under it. No name or anything else.. Would you make contact??

Kirsty how intriguing! Have you been practicing cosmic ordering? I would call the number but withhold mine.

Kirsty Not knowing would drive me mad! I agree with MadameO phone the number but withhold your number. How exciting!

Ooh Kirsty, do you have any single, sexy neighbours?

So replied to NewYork boy last night (just a 'how was your weekend') and turns out he has two sons - one has the same name as my DS and the other is the same name as one of Mr60s DS. So what is the universe trying to tell me now?!

Hi all...feel I have missed a bit here. Someone tell me about ScaredofPeas please! Western that is good, I am a Northern Bird too, but ex pat now. Interesting you think there is a Northern humour. Like dry, Corrie style or different? So, one man has dissapeared having seen my pic, another one doesn't want to follow it up cos I Iz a Big Bird (though that is on my profile, and was there before he Favourited me he claims he is an accountant, so you would think he would have read that first...
sounds like other peeps are doing ok? Yoga interesting about NYork man, do you think you are being led to 'go for it'?