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He was in the wrong...wasn`t he?

58 replies

brownbag · 20/08/2012 09:21

Sorry if this is TMI first thing on a Monday morning, but really not too sure what to make of this.

Been kinda seeing this man for about five months now. All going well, he is very affectionate, funny and always there if I need a hand with everything.

We were in bed last night, and he asked me to give him a blow job, which is something I really, really dont like doing, but will very ocasionally. Never have with him before, and I made a feeble joke about needing to get up and do some work. He had tried to direct himself into my mouth a couple of weeks ago, I had twisted myself away and hed seemed to get the message.

This time though, he pushed me onto my back, pulled himself up the bed and pushed himself into my mouth. I was so shocked I just let him get on with it. H acted totally normal after and so did I.

Is this just him getting carried away? I know I should have said no. I know I should have tried to push him off. Was just completly shocked.

OP posts:
CarnivorousPanda · 20/08/2012 14:52

As Op says, she was completely shocked. No wonder. This "Man" refused to take no for an answer.

PretzelTime · 20/08/2012 15:00

What a bastard. Hope you're OK op.
Good advice from AnyFucker.

Crinkle77 · 20/08/2012 16:36

You should have bit it off then he would have been sorry

AnyFucker · 20/08/2012 18:50

please, people, do not ever attempt to bite a man's dick

especially one in the process of sexually assaulting you

it makes it far more likely he will punch you so hard he will snap your neck

not a good outcome either way, of course, but at least you get to stay alive

ImperialBlether · 20/08/2012 19:20

Scrambled, do you also have indigestion? I found that (with the gag reflex) when I had an undiagnosed stomach ulcer.

ImperialBlether · 20/08/2012 19:21

AnyFucker, brilliant advice, both times.

ScrambledSmegs · 20/08/2012 20:52

AF I agree - I did say 'involuntary' but whether deliberate or not the outcome would not be good for the biter.

Don't worry Imperial, I'm pregnant, not ill (although it feels like it sometimes). Thanks for the advice though!

AnyFucker · 20/08/2012 21:48

in the early stages of my pg's I would gag when I brushed my teeth, flossed, ate crunchy food

it was horrible so I sympathise, smegs

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