I need a stern talking to....

[MsFish]

I am a complete numpty and need you strong mumsnetters to help me grow a backbone! I met a man off the internet, as you do, and after a few dates he has now started ignoring me. I thought I could separate the emotion from the sex after a long time single and feeling strong. Turns out I can't. I am old enough to know better.

Tell me that I need to step away from the email where I want to spill my guts, as this is pathetic and needy and I don't want to be that person!

Ah, perhaps that is my failing, I am attracted to people that are able to talk about intimate things, because I admire emotional honesty in people...it didn't feel "too much too soon", just felt that he trusted me....I will bear it in mind for the next time though....if there is a next time. Hidden reg flags,,,there must be more? I will think on...

And you are right, no decent person would treat another person that way...must keep that in mind.