My husband, for example, is a...

[AreYouCallingMeDarling]

...Cunt

100s of text messages to a woman a couple of months back...

again

nothing happened with her of course

I checked his bill because I did an online shop and condoms were in the "stuff you have been buying at tesco" list. Apparently they were for a posh wank

don't know how to move on from this or if I even want to or can

I have work to do tonight so may not post much.

I'm so sorry your dh is a cunt :(

I think you should make the decision to pack his bags, and throw him out. Don't do any of his washing/cleaning/ironing etc, and just throw him out on his sorry arse.

Don't let him make any decisions, you make them. You take control of what you want, not what he wants.

Not eating again. So at least the weight loss will be good.

We are in military quarters so I can't throw him out. 'Tis not the way the military are run.

I have to do the work that I didn't do last night, now.

If you won't end the relationship then you'll have a lifetime of this.

Your choice.

Ultimately it doesn't matter who leaves.

If the only way to get rid is for you to move, so be it.

You could tell his CO?

He must be cursing using the clubcard eh?

What a pathetic liar he is....if it weren't so painful for you OP, it would be laughable. A posh wank?? What an arsehole!

The greatest indication of what a loser he is, is actually not in the cheating itself (although of course that goes without saying) but in the readiness (and ridiculousnesness) of his lies.

He has proved that he will not face up to his wrongdoing, by considering that to weasel out of it by telling silly, transparent lies, is preferable to shouldering the responsibility....this above everything else tells you exactly what sort of rodent you have been misfortunate enough to hook up with.

Over and above anything else OP, a liar is a liar for the rest of their days. Not to be trusted ever at all...about anything.
Get shot of it.