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Will the nighmare ever end?? :/

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Butterflygp · 12/06/2012 12:10

My husband walked out on me 8 weeks ago it was a huge blow as i really loved him and always put lots of effort into the marrige. We have two children age 3 and 17 months, we have moved from the uk and have been here in austalia for nearly 4 years. We have been together for 5 years i was 18 when i met him, im now 23 and his 28, his reason? Just doesnt love me anymore wants to be free single, he doesnt fancy me. Now i have just found out he is seeing someone else, shes 20 fun and free he thinks that he hasnt done anything wrong, that i just need to move on and only talk to him about the children, I am heart broken and im finding it so hard copping with the loss. I have always taken care of my self and havent let my self go he just says things like he doesnt like my strech marks and im irretating. How can this man who was my best friend just well complety fuck me over?? He wants a relationship with the kids which is good im just so angry that it was that easy for him to walk away from us all. He did a few things in our marrige, put him self on a dating site there were naked pictures of him self on there i forgave him i feel like a fool, his taking his new gf on dates and stuff, and im left holding 2 young kids picking up the mess. But he blames me for how i am how does he not for guity/?? please help me!

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Butterflygp · 04/07/2012 12:45

Why do I still miss him? He has been a complete bastard to me and yet when I see him I still find him so attractive I just want to cut him out of my mind it sucks :(

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skyebluesapphire · 04/07/2012 16:08

sorry youve had a bad couple of days. I no longer feel attracted to my H because Im so angry with him and disappointed in him too. Feel the rage! Try and think what a horrible person he has become - there is nothing attractive about a personality who can treat you like that.

I know its hard. I dont see or speak to my STBXH at the moment because I cant trust myself not to get upset, or hurl abuse so I avoid him. The thing to aim for is indifference, where you can see him and not feel a thing. I need to get past the anger to indifference. you need to feel the anger, then let it go to indifference!

Keep chasing whatever you have to do to get child support out of him. You are entitled to it

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