my husband has just left me

[cocolepew]

i have a 10 and 14 year old DD. i didnt see it coming im so unhappy

Bump and a hug ! Has he given a explanation ?

Aww I'm sorry.

Coco!

Oh

What did he say? Did he explain?

So sorry coco, has this just happened now? Anyone you can ask round?

He says hedoesnt love me any more

Oh god, you poor thing

Oh, Coco.

Bloody hell - I'm so sorry.
Another woman, do you think? Mid-life bollocksy stuff?

Ill come back later i need to go znd be with thegirls for a while. Im having troublecomposing myself

No woman my friend thinks mid life crisis i think selfish bastard we cant afford to run 2 housholds

Oh no. Oh Coco my lovely you must be reeling.

I am so sorry. Any indication at all he wasn't happy? That's awful. Are the girls aware? I wish the best.

oh bless you, so sorry it will be ok, whatever happens, after a while, it will be ok

Thank you for your replies and good wishes. DH has come back and admitted he thinks he is having a breakdown. He wirks very long hours and i think exhaustion has crept up on him.

He says he has been retreated into himself because he was grumpy from tiredness and didnt want to upset us. He thought we would be happier if he left.

He is going to the dr on monday and hopefully will get the help he needs.

Thanks again for your kind words x

Hope it all works out for you, Coco.

Oh lovely. Are you pleased he is back?

V v good that he is going for help.

Hope you.are ok

Oh sweetheart. Best of luck, I also hope it will all work out.

Oh I'm so sorry, hope you get it sorted

Hope it all works out for you xx

xx and from me
Good luck for monday.

Thank you yes I'm glad hes back I texted him I didnt want him to leave and he came back to talk.

It's a pain in the arse having a worrier for a husbsnd you doesnt want to ' burden' you with his worries. I have been unwell since November and unable to work,and I am waiting for an operation, so money has got tighter and he panics about me being ill. But tries to put a brave face on.

Best wishes from me to you and your family.Hope things get better for you.

coco hope everything works out for you both xx

FWW two and a half years ago I unexpectedly became convinced my marriage was over, my kids didn't need me and got involved with a horrible bloke
When I fell apart I ended up diagnosed as bipolar and was manic at the time
It s been a road and a half to recovery but I've made it with my lovely DH's support and medication
So sometimes it can be mental illness maesquerading as a 'midlife crisis'(that's what I told myself)
Good luck I hope it works out