my husband has just left me

[cocolepew]

i have a 10 and 14 year old DD. i didnt see it coming im so unhappy

I'm glad he has come back and is seeing the GP on Monday. Please come and post here if you need to talk though, in the weeks ahead if it helps.

Coco hope you can work things through

Coco

Don't know all the details just now, but I'm dealing with something similar.

If there is anyway that I can help?. I'm
G13

Please just give me a hint darling x, I live 100 yds away from Lidl.

If I could help in anyway then I will will do my best.

Really, honestly. I would be very glad to help if ther is anything I can do.

Much love & best wishes. xxxxx.

Chin up

Thank you again!

Things looking much better this morning i was on an aniexity thread and im beginning to think he has vit b12 deficincy (no idea how to spell that). I told him a few weeks ago i thought there was something wrong with his thyroid so hes going to mention on monday.

He has physical symptons which altogether are more than his mental ones if you see what i mean?

Anyway we'll see what monday brings

Coco be calm, and be kind. Now you know the burden of 'how' you two relate is too much for him, please go to counselling and learn how to talk to eachother, (and be stronger for him).

It is so sad. So many of these 'splits' have nothing to do with lack of love. It is about coping skills, and positions in the relationship..

I have learned this the hard way too. [Whatever he did,] I did 'me' work as well and have found out that I have been far too passive and handed over too much power. That is my stuff to work on and I own it.

Tell DH that 90% of what you worry about, never pans out.

All the best for your coming surgery, do you have any family support that can help you?