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[Gay40]

Welcome!

I've been in two minds about what to say, either go down the 'i really want to be friends so let's get lashed again next week' or just say 'oops sorry, it seems I do fancy you after all.'

The problem with the first options is it's a little thingy (I can't think of the word!) - I'm not being honest about the fact i fancy her so it might come back to bite me on the bum.

The problem with the second is she might go 'aaaaaaaaaargh!' and that will be the last I hear from her...

"Let's get lashed properly next week."
Don't allude to anything else.

I thought the whhole point of that was to be honest! why go friends route - if she agrees you'd be forever trying to turn her. I think if she says argh, just let her go, what is the point torturing yourself..Hardly 'action' to offer her friendship.
I wonder if sleepless DID kiss her drunken wiq .

If you offer her to get lashed - fine, but as Gay says, don't mention friendship. And just do it once, if still nothing from her, then best to leave it.

Oh God! Two different opinions. I'm going for a little rock in my corner again.

Likea get ye to FB, she posted a v lovely pic of the two of them a few mins ago.

well, not quite different..G40 is also against offering friendship. I did always say that you could offer her to go drinking, but it's been wisely said that she may do something when drunk that she may regret next day and be off. Unless it will ne just honest talk while drinking.

It strikes me that the The Bolter is not the regretting sort...just will move on and sort it out in her own head

If we meet up again it needs to be somewhere quieter, pub last week had pretty loud music, ok for general chat but not ideal for Serious (hic) Conversation.

Of course this could all turn out to be academic if I bored the arse off her so much last time she'd rather smash her toes with a hammer than spend any time with me again

I'll ask her to send it by pm if possible. Too tired to egister and msg Crushing. Been shifting furniture and boxes around the flat all day!

No I doubt she would do regretting. She's too Northern.

haven't you unpacked yet Likea?!

I can't talk, I moved 18 months back and still have sealed boxes around the place.

Too Northern?????

I mean that in a positive way She's from the North and has got that quite matter of fact way about her. Not a navel gazer.

G i didn't mean she'd sit there and regret, it's just an expression - meaning polly wouldn't get what he wanted and be hurt if anything happens but then no continuation. So if they get lashed it's really to have an open talk.

no polly it's only been a month but furniture got assembled only yesterday, so I had nowhere to unpack into. Plus I'm in london also on and off (seeing wiq). some progress, about halfway .

tbh even if i was under the influence i really wouldn't want to be under The Bolter so early on. Because it could all backfire, we've both got to be sure about things.

I know she's a matter of fact, that's why if she says she's not gay, then she isn't .

good thinking p! it would help getting her to talk if she did feel any attraction.

well yes there is that....

if you offer to get lashed and she is not too keen, would you then write about how you feel?

polly aer you southern? SW or SE?

I'm from SE.

Oh I don't know about that....probably not.

I just keep remembering that Loveis WDNG (and now is) and Mrs Gay WDNG and is now Mrs Gay.....

And the previous MrsG.

Good God.

Right Gay I need to know your secrets.