G40, she's a few yeras older than I thought she was, I could be her daughter (if she had me early-ish) not that she looks it or sounds her age. Just look a few pages back to my long Monday post, I can't repeat all my thinking again (don't be lazy
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Loveis, I know you've fallen in love unexpectedly but did it take you months or years to realise it, with that woman? polly's wiq has known her for 2yrs, and polly liked her staight away) even if it wasn't constant contact and polly asked her out ages ago first when she thought she was gay. I'd think it'd progress by now as polly was direct (I'm not being direct with my wiq as i know she's not gay - well, no evidence, and in my case it was 6 months with 2mnths break, so at a stretch mine could be a slow burner). Also polly's has no kids and is really free to do as she wishes - yes, she was with a bloke but not anymore and i think they had issues for a while. Mine again was stressed about one child for a while and distracted. THis is why I'm still giving it time, but I'm not hoping much, I just think polly's stuation is even less promising. I wish she met an intelligent thoughtful woman who was actually interested, not stuck on the dng wiq.