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Fuck Him and his Barbour - dating chat 10

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watchoutforthatsnail · 16/03/2012 10:00

New thread - you know what to do :)

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MyLittleMiracle · 04/04/2012 17:33

Okay, five second update, i am going to meet someone, just been decided upon. But they are bringing their best mate too, so not to bad. Off to get ready and will let you know how it goes!

notsurewhyohwhy · 04/04/2012 18:20

Oh good luck Wink are you bringing a friend too? Lol

Sunshinedelacruz · 04/04/2012 18:29

Loves, I am with you on that one. Though you don't know what the sex will be like until you have given it a whirl and sometimes I can't even be arsed doing that. Thing is blokes tell you they are wonderful at sex. Nearly every man I've met, whatever he looks like, has told me he has never had any complaints. O for gods sake, they think not having complaints doesn't make for good sex.
Not sure. I will meet not meet people who show any signs of being ridiculous. This includes cock pictures, asking if I want my breasts massaged, telling me they have a long tongue etc. I make judgments on texts and phone calls. Not a similar situation to you but I had a man recently text me a few times but he never offered to meet. Then one evening I asked if we could talk and he text me the next day 'so are you going to phone me then?' for some reason it got my goat.

PoppaRob · 04/04/2012 18:39

Don't know if you're paying attention now that you're playing happy families with Mr Yacht and the Zanybunch, but

H A P P Y - B I R T H D A Y - Z A N Y !
Smile Thanks Wine Smile Thanks Wine Smile Thanks Wine Smile

MsCellophane · 04/04/2012 18:43

MLM!!!! You date with a stranger is a date with two strangers???? NO!!!!

I'm probably too late but please don't go, way too odd

TheSinglePringle · 04/04/2012 18:45

I wouldn't trust a date that was bringing a friend MLM I'm with cello

Do not go!

Sunshinedelacruz · 04/04/2012 18:54

Agree. Just seems really wired.

Sunshinedelacruz · 04/04/2012 18:58

Weird

lovesineffable · 04/04/2012 19:11

sounds like you already know the ropes sunshine:)

mlm, bringing a friend is weird and creepy!

adamschic · 04/04/2012 19:11

Singlepringle, Internet dating hasn't worked for me, personally, I wouldn't even say that I'd had that many good nights on it Grin. However, I know a few people who have met long term partners off the internet.

We had an old thread running a few years ago, resulting in one wedding, and four live in relationships that afaik are still going strong.

MLM, agree with others do not go if he wants to bring a mate.

Notsurewhy, it would put me off too, they should make sure you feel comfortable with the arrangements on a first date. It's bad enough meeting a stranger let alone worrying about your safety.

Snape, sounds like a good win, well done.

Watch, hope you have a good night.

notsurewhyohwhy · 04/04/2012 19:44

oh I can see you all have more sense then me on the date bringing a friend, I thought they were both bringing friends...

adams - oh I'm glad you agree, I thought maybe I was expecting too much and perhaps not being fair by expecting him to go slightly futher then me to meet up. but if he was a gentle man then he would think along the same lines as me.

But when i questioned him on what he said 'well its a long way to go and we might not like each other' I said to him 'basically what your saying is, you want me to meet you on your doorstep incase you dont like me, but if you do then you are happy to go to a part of london that is not a mission for me to get home from'. then he started back tracking saying well its just that I have an early start and we agreed to meet another time.

But do you think I should even bother meeting him again?

adamschic · 04/04/2012 19:48

Depends how much you fancy his photo Grin. Assuming it's alot then go and meet him another time.

notsurewhyohwhy · 04/04/2012 20:53

yes i do really like his photo, but when he texts me now i feel like i cant be bothered, maybe I will give him one more try Grin

MyLittleMiracle · 04/04/2012 22:46

well i just got back! They were both lovely and the evening went very well Grin he has many talents Wink

Definetely will be seeing him again!

I appreciated your concern, i think he bought a friend as a get out clause, sort of oh my friend needs to go/do such and such in case he didnt fancy me but obviously he did!!

Really happy, but will feel the aches tomorrow! And the headache to go with the vodka!

MyLittleMiracle · 04/04/2012 22:48

Next time i will be bringing a friend, shame i have no single friends, he was 18, a toy boy for me¬ just what i had joked about! But emm very lets say informed. LOL. x

notsurewhyohwhy · 04/04/2012 22:56

mylittle - glad it went well, if you dont mind me asking, how old are you?

watchoutforthatsnail · 04/04/2012 23:01

Just quickly...best date ive had in about two years.

Hes very good looking and absolutey lovely, and it felt very easy and comftable.
We had a quick drink, saw the artist at a small independent film club and then he asked if I.wanted another drink...

Serious spark my side, hes really nice to talk to and I've been home 10 mins and.hes text me to say it was really good to spend time with.me and would have liked to have spent.more..... And then a x.

Good sign?

Or just being buddisty.and nice.....

Sods law its the latter.

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MyLittleMiracle · 04/04/2012 23:03

24 almost. I know, but its not like its too bad, hsi friend was 24, and it did say on his profile that he was 22, so i wasnt expecting an 18 year old or anything!

MyLittleMiracle · 04/04/2012 23:04

Nope its not the latter i am getting plenty of luck, but not sure i can handle any more men! I have someone coming over friday too! But we are strictly mates! But i met him online....

watchoutforthatsnail · 04/04/2012 23:08

Fucking hell. Fucking hell, Fucking hell

He just asked me out again.

Unbelievable.

Omg, amazing.

And not even a snog or any kind of inappropriateness or mention of cum tributes!!!

Awesome. Am very excited!!!!!!!_

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MyLittleMiracle · 04/04/2012 23:10

Well i did get kissed and more........i wont go into the details too much, but walking on air sums it up a bit!

MyLittleMiracle · 04/04/2012 23:14

watch glad that your date went so well as well. I am glad you will be seeing him again!

Seasidegirly · 04/04/2012 23:15

Grin yay for watch

watchoutforthatsnail · 04/04/2012 23:20

Yay for me :)

I.didn't want to be kissed, I could.actually see myself.dating him, I.eant to get to know him and would like someone to want to get to know me, rather than trading off my.sexuality.

I really enjoyed his company... It was good..but im.not.goinh.to leap into bed witj him, its a dufferent dynamic....

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watchoutforthatsnail · 04/04/2012 23:23

And he was deliciously scruffy.

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